A male Health And Fitness 3-plus-affairs-do-my-wife-really-love-me 3 plus affairs, Do my wife really love me? Relationship & Sex    age 41-50, *_TRUE_2_YOURSELF writes:

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My wife and I have been married for 28 years. However, in those 28 years, my wife has had 3 affairs on me that I catch her doing. I now have the same feeling that something is going on. What I am mostly concerned about is do she really love me or is she just hanging around because of the children and financially security?

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A female reader, CindyCares Health And Fitness 3-plus-affairs-do-my-wife-really-love-me-1 3 plus affairs, Do my wife really love me? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (4 March 2019):

Health And Fitness 3-plus-affairs-do-my-wife-really-love-me 3 plus affairs, Do my wife really love me? Relationship & Sex    We cannot know for sure, but that she is hanging around because of children and money rather than out of love, is more a probability than just a possibility. If she already had 3 affairs during your marriage (.. that you know of, but it could be more— ) the strength and depth of her love for you, heck , just of her interest in you !, is very questionable to say the least.

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A male reader, WiseOwlE Health And Fitness 3-plus-affairs-do-my-wife-really-love-me 3 plus affairs, Do my wife really love me? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (4 March 2019):

You are very forgiving. Only she knows in her heart how she feels about you. I’m not optimistic whether she does.There have been no consequences for her affairs; so she can do it without conscience.If you haven’t held her accountable for betraying your marriage; there is nothing to deter this behavior. She takes advantage of the fact you’ll hang-on regardless of what she does. I’d say the scale tilts in favor of the possibility she doesn’t love you; but appreciates you as a husband, provider, and father to her children. Dear sir, you don’t lay-out any details about your marriage except that your wife cheats on you. All anyone here can do is speculate. Do you have a good sex-life? Does she treat you with kindness and affection? Does she keep-up appearances of a happy marriage, and take good care of the children? Does she provide you with a lovely home? Does she standby you through thick and thin? Supporting you in everything you do, and comfort you through your setbacks? You’ve asked if she loves you?If none of the above. Probably not.You don’t usually cheat when you respect the trust of your mate, or care about their feelings. You wouldn’t do things that would hurt them. If you can do it and getaway with it; you are likely to repeat it. You didn’t say whether you love her. Why have you remained married to someone who has cheated on you thrice, and likely a forth time? That is the question.If she is the mother of your children and you both live a financially secure lifestyle; she has it made. You have forgiven her for cheating. Therefore, there is no reason to leave; nor any reason to remain faithful.If you can remain with her after she repeatedly cheats on you. Do you really care if she loves you or not? It is apparent to me that you don’t want to leave her, regardless of what she has done.If you have refused to give her a divorce in spite of what she has done; then I’m not sure if that in itself is love. It might be something more sinister. You possess her and won’t let-go. You forgive her over and over; but she may be having affairs hoping you would.If you’re a very passive gentlemen, who looks the other way in order to keep your marriage in-tact. I guess that is the arrangement that holds the marriage together. If you do love her; I’d say it is unlikely that it is reciprocated.

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious Health And Fitness 3-plus-affairs-do-my-wife-really-love-me-2 3 plus affairs, Do my wife really love me? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (3 March 2019):

Health And Fitness 3-plus-affairs-do-my-wife-really-love-me-1 3 plus affairs, Do my wife really love me? Relationship & Sex    People have affairs BECAUSE THEY CAN. The first time you caught her out, you should have told her this was her last chance – and meant it. You have repeatedly allowed her to get away with having affairs so why should she not think it is fine to treat you this way?If she loved you, she would not put you through this heartache on a regular basis. You have the rest of your life ahead of you. Is this how you want to spend it? Is this all you think you deserve?

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A male reader, N91 Health And Fitness 3-plus-affairs-do-my-wife-really-love-me-2 3 plus affairs, Do my wife really love me? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (3 March 2019):

Health And Fitness 977e3106-6f9b-4a08-abba-678cab1a22f1 3 plus affairs, Do my wife really love me? Relationship & Sex    Come on man. Seriously?Are you a doormat or a human being? She wouldn’t of cheated once if she loved you.

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness 3-plus-affairs-do-my-wife-really-love-me 3 plus affairs, Do my wife really love me? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (3 March 2019):

Health And Fitness 98df9f73-904a-4dd9-a948-14179b833b87 3 plus affairs, Do my wife really love me? Relationship & Sex    I don’t think what she feels for you is love. I don’t think decent people CHEAT on people they love.What was her “excuse” for her last 3 affairs?And why did you stay with her when she cheated on you MULTIPLE times? Don’t you think YOU deserve better?

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