A female Health And Fitness am-i-overreacting-to-his-sex-secrecy Am I overreacting to his sex secrecy? Relationship & Sex    age 26-29, *xImThatGirlxX writes:

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So, crazy title question, I know, but I’m not sure if im overreacting.

A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I were talking about women “squirting” during sex (insert embarrassed face lol). We were just talking about it casually because we are very open with sex and have an excellent sex life. He claimed that he could make me “squirt” and I said I didnt think so. Because if he could, or if I could, it would have already happened. He kind of agreed and we moved on. Fastfawrd a couple of weeks and we are getting hot and heavy and he makes me do it! He didn’t tell me he was going to do it and we hadn’t talked about it again. He just did it without warning. Later, after sex, I asked how he did it and he wouldnt tell me. He was acting like it was funny saying, “I’m not telling you my techniques.” But I started to get upset. It wasn’t funny to me. It’s my body and I feel like I should know what is being done to it. Him holding back his “technique” makes me feel weird. Why the secrecy? I dropped it, but I can’t stop thinking about it. Am I overreacting or do I have a right to feel upset? Thanks!

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