A female Health And Fitness am-i-reading-too-much-into-our-friend-with-benefits-relationship Am I reading too much into our friend with benefits relationship? Relationship & Sex    age 26-29, *edRuby writes:

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I am trying to figure this person out and hoping to get some advice. I am in a Friends with benefits relationship . I am with man who I am getting the most weirdest signals, we started dating in July and usually back than it was just the sex, which is fine with me. Fast forward 5/6 months we still text and keep In touch but now he talk to me more and ask about my family, how I am doing. When I’m having a bad day he want me to tell him instead of brushing it of. He is telling kind of what’s do ect.. Today I told him I Really Really like him, he asked me why do I like him? I was confused by the question but I express my feeling s as to why I like him.. I am wondering why did he ask that question? And is he looking for more ? Or I am reading to much in to this?

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A female reader, RedRuby Health And Fitness am-i-reading-too-much-into-our-friend-with-benefits-relationship Am I reading too much into our friend with benefits relationship? Relationship & Sex     +, writes (17 January 2019):

RedRuby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHealth And Fitness am-i-reading-too-much-into-our-friend-with-benefits-relationship Am I reading too much into our friend with benefits relationship? Relationship & Sex    I kind of figure my self… all I got from home when I told him I like him is. “Aww thank you baby girl”…

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A male reader, WiseOwlE Health And Fitness am-i-reading-too-much-into-our-friend-with-benefits-relationship Am I reading too much into our friend with benefits relationship? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (17 January 2019):

Typo correction:”Obviously you are; and he didn’t confirm he is, when you told him so.”

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A male reader, WiseOwlE Health And Fitness am-i-reading-too-much-into-our-friend-with-benefits-relationship Am I reading too much into our friend with benefits relationship? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (17 January 2019):

Didn’t you say you were friends? You just described what you get from a friend. You just happen to have sex with your friend.He asked you why you liked him? That’s because the deal is a friends with benefits agreement. Now you’re catching feelings. If you’re not on the same page; maybe it’s time to get out of it. Go seek a meaningful romantic-relationship with all the trappings.Don’t settle, sweetheart! I think you want and deserve more; but sometimes people agree to these arrangements hoping that over time it will evolve into what they really want. An actual monogamous-relationship between two people in-love.If he’s questioning you; it’s because he’s putting you on the spot to make you hear yourself. You know you’re supposed to be friends; and there was supposed to be sex with no strings attached. Unless sex was added as bait?You’re asking if he’s looking for more? Obviously you are; and he didn’t confirm he is, when you told him you so.Time to remove sex from the deal. Strings are attached.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2019):

You’re not going to like this, but the only correct advice is “ASK HIM”. If you can’t ask him, you’re not matched well enough to be in a relationship or FwB with him. I know it can be a scary thing to ask, but you’re not dating if it’s just FwB, so you’re confusing your terms for what’s going on because neither of you have clearly discussed what it is you’re doing.

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A female reader, janniepeg Health And Fitness ca Am I reading too much into our friend with benefits relationship? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (16 January 2019):

Health And Fitness cc272a9a-5bf5-4456-bf36-166d1a51d4f0 Am I reading too much into our friend with benefits relationship? Relationship & Sex    A lot of times, men ask to be in FWBs giving the impression that they can pick and choose who’s date material, and who’s casual material. In fact they don’t have the confidence or means to sustain a real relationship. Like money, maturity or patience. So when he asks you why you like him, it’s because he doesn’t really believe that he’s worthy of love. It’s possible that you developed a bond with him through sex, not that you actually think a relationship with him is a good idea. I suggest you to not look too much into this. Both of you would have trust issues. He can think something like, if you so easily give in to sex, then you would be the same with many men, so to be in a relationship with you would bring insecurity. That’s true on your side too.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2019):

What are you hoping for deep down,in the reasons behind why he is behaving the way he is towards you?

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