A male Health And Fitness are-straight-people-welcome-in-gay-clubs-or-not Are straight people welcome in gay clubs or not? Relationship & Sex    age 26-29, anonymous writes:

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Recently my gay friend invited me to accompany him to the gay club. I’m straight and I was kind of in two minds about it. I’m not homophobic at all but somehow I felt like I don’t belong in there and as a straight person, I shouldn’t occupy places meant specifically for gay people. But he assured me it’s going to be fun and it’s totally fine with me going with him, so I agreed.

In the club, it was exactly as my friend described – fun, great music, good drinks. After a while of being there, some guy came up to me and started to feel me and touch me. I politely pushed his hands away and explained that I’m straight. He looked at me, quite annoyed and was like ” Then what are you doing in a gay club? Don’t you straights have your own clubs?” So I don’t really get it now – are straight people welcome in gay clubs or not?

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A female reader, CindyCares Health And Fitness are-straight-people-welcome-in-gay-clubs-or-not-1 Are straight people welcome in gay clubs or not? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 June 2019):

Health And Fitness are-straight-people-welcome-in-gay-clubs-or-not Are straight people welcome in gay clubs or not? Relationship & Sex    If you accompany a gay friend, it’s fine. You should have answered ” I am just hanging out with my friend ” and , at least in my experience both in Europe and USA, not even the most militant gayprider would have found fault with that. What, rightly so, pisses mightily off gay people is having groups of heteros going to gay venues in the same spirit they’d make a trip to the zoo, or to some wild Amazonas tribe- site; you know , staring and gawking and oohing and aahing and commenting…. Your ” suitor ” acted annoyed just because … he wanted to get it on and he could not; some as , some times, straight guys in straight clubs get snappy with straight girls who turn them down. Sexual frustration makes people irritable 🙂

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A female reader, Ivyblue Health And Fitness are-straight-people-welcome-in-gay-clubs-or-not-2 Are straight people welcome in gay clubs or not? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 June 2019):

Health And Fitness are-straight-people-welcome-in-gay-clubs-or-not-1 Are straight people welcome in gay clubs or not? Relationship & Sex    They are in my town. I spent a lot of my youth hanging out with my gay pals. I actually felt far more safer there because I was straight and didnt have to worry about slime bag dudes trying to crack on to me all night. Your going there to hang out with a mate-so be it IMHO

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness are-straight-people-welcome-in-gay-clubs-or-not Are straight people welcome in gay clubs or not? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 June 2019):

Health And Fitness are-straight-people-welcome-in-gay-clubs-or-not-2 Are straight people welcome in gay clubs or not? Relationship & Sex    Gay clubs are MADE for gay people to give them a “safe space” to make connections – PRIMARILY.Doesn’t mean you aren’t welcome, I would guess. However, from my experience you will also find that SOME (not all) gay men are WAY more tactile if interested in your looks, than ANY woman at a club that caters mostly to straight people.And yes, I can kind of see why he was annoyed, he was hoping to get laid. And you shot that down with a “I’m straight”. It’s not like it’s tattooed on your forehead that you are straight.Gay people are PEOPLE, just like you. Doesn’t your gay friend go to “straight clubs” too, as you call them?I don’t think people need to segregate themselves based on sexual orientation. Seriously. But it DOES make sense that gay clubs are primarily for GAY people as it makes it easier for a SMALL group of people to meet “kindred spirits”.

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