Hi. I am currently confused at the moment. Can somebody tell me what to do? So i met this guy on a dating site a month ago. Everything went well, we do video call for hours, we made plans for the future, he tells me i love you and misses me. But as time goes by, change was noticed. He wont say i love you nor miss.me anynore. He keep changing plans and making me feel like i am unwanted, unloved and unvalued. I dont want to assume, but ladies have that feeling and when we feel it, it is right. He still consistently calling me everyday, but i dont feel like he is into me anymore. I dont understand why he still want to be with me ,yet treated me wrong. Yesterday as we were talking on vid call. He said he will slap me on the face, and ue sounded serious. I asked him he ever hit a woman, then he said change topic. And it made me wonder, and now it bothers me. I wanna leave him. But how? I dont want to hurt him. Do i have a valid reason to leave him? Please enlighten me. Thank you.
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A female reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (7 March 2019):
You have only known him a month, never met in person and he isn’t treating you in a nice way. For anyone to say they want to slap you in the face, that should be a HUGE clue for you to NOT talk to them.Don’t waste your time on this one. The whole “I love you and all that good stuff” it’s FANTASY, you don’t KNOW the guy in person. Video chatting is not the same and IF he after ONLY a month no longer “loves” you… then let him go.JUST block and move on.
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