I just found out my girlfriend of 6 years had multiple threesomes, and even a foursome MMMF. She was dating one guy but had sex with his three friends without him. When he found out she offered to have sex with him and another guy she was sleeping with at the time. Turns out I know some of the guys in the foursome. I’m torn now and don’t know what to do.
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A female reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (8 December 2018):
How does it affect you? Directly?Is it because you don’t like some with a “larger” sexual history than yourself?Or because you KNOW some of the men who had sex with her?Or because she basically cheated on that ex with 3 other men? Or was THAT relationship a swinger/open relationship?I think my answer might vary, depending on HOW it affect you and WHAT is it that makes you go, I’m now TORN about this woman.You have been dating her for 6 years, and only NOW does it pop up and concern you?How did you find out about this?While I absolutely believe that a person’s PAST sex-life doesn’t NEED to be aired, I would find it a bit hard to see my partner with the same “glasses” if I found out they had been into groupsex, swinging, open relationship for the simple fact that it COULD be that they don’t have the same values and notions about WHAT a relationship entails, what committing fully and faithfulness means.And then let’s not forget that someone who has been more promiscuous in their behavior have a higher change of having and passing on STD’s.I do think it would be nice if you could answer my questions before I continue to answer.
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