A female Health And Fitness he-asked-me-out-as-a-joke-but-i-said-yes-how-do-i-face-my-friends He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends? Relationship & Sex    age 13-15, anonymous writes:

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My crush asked me out as a joke and I said yes. I was sick the day after and I wasn’t at school. My friends texted me about it. Apparently he had told most of my friends. Now I have to go back to school. I don’t really like him a lot. I just wouldn’t mind dating him. Now I hate him but I don’t what to do about my frien. Do I lie? Help please 🙁

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A male reader, WiseOwlE Health And Fitness he-asked-me-out-as-a-joke-but-i-said-yes-how-do-i-face-my-friends He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 October 2018):

He’s just a dumb kid. He probably got teased about liking you; so he said asking you out was a joke. If you cancelled the date, because you got sick; maybe he got embarrassed, and thought you stood him up. So in anger, he told everybody it was just a joke anyway. If you cancelled last-minute, after he told his buddies he asked you out; they probably laughed at him!You’re both only 13; so there is always going to be something for the other kids to find to laugh about, or use to embarrass you. In this case, he’s the one who looks like a total jerk in-front of everybody. Just remember, you didn’t really like him in the first place. Did you tell any of your friends that, so it could get back to him? I think you’re both kind of equal. He claims asking you out was a joke; and you said yes, when you didn’t really like him all that much anyway. So I guess you both were not being honest with each other.It’s no big disaster anyway. How long do you think a group of 13 year-olds are going to care about your business? They have to keep-up with all the latest gossip happening around school; and your little date-issue will just get buried-under and forgotten in less than a week!

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness he-asked-me-out-as-a-joke-but-i-said-yes-how-do-i-face-my-friends He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 October 2018):

Health And Fitness he-asked-me-out-as-a-joke-but-i-said-yes-how-do-i-face-my-friends He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends? Relationship & Sex    Yep the ladies are right, you didn’t DO anything wrong in saying yes.You just got lucky you got sick.What do you do when you get back to school? HOLD your head up high and IGNORE the idiot. If your friends ask.. just say, HEY we all make mistakes, mine was saying yes to a date with a LOSER. Then DON’T discuss it further. If they ask more about it, just say you are SO over him and the topic.As for him, ignore. Simply pretend he doesn’t exist.Let HIM be the one holding the stick…

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A female reader, Andie’s Thoughts Health And Fitness he-asked-me-out-as-a-joke-but-i-said-yes-how-do-i-face-my-friends-1 He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 October 2018):

Health And Fitness he-asked-me-out-as-a-joke-but-i-said-yes-how-do-i-face-my-friends-1 He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends? Relationship & Sex    “What an idiot; he believed me. Like I’d go out with someone so immature.” Other than that, don’t comment. Don’t bitch about him, don’t talk to him, just let it go and others will too.

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Health And Fitness he-asked-me-out-as-a-joke-but-i-said-yes-how-do-i-face-my-friends-2 He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 October 2018):

Health And Fitness b3f6484a-6c15-446d-a642-ae5a426fe44b He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends? Relationship & Sex    Two can play at this game. If he said that he was joking, your say the same thing. Laugh it off when people ask you about him and say, “did you guys really think I was serious? How silly! Did you really think I would say yes to him and mean it?”That’ll teach him!

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious Health And Fitness he-asked-me-out-as-a-joke-but-i-said-yes-how-do-i-face-my-friends-1 He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 October 2018):

Health And Fitness cb00d1ef-0a14-495d-ae29-55bd6b6b2f04 He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends? Relationship & Sex    This says nothing about YOU and EVERYTHING about HIM. HE is a nasty immature little boy, who gets his kicks out of humiliating people. Honestly? In your shoes I would laugh it off. Just shrug and say, “You can’t win them all” and then say “Glad I didn’t actually win THAT one.” Not much of a prize, is he? People will remember his behaviour and, when he actually asks a girl out for real, they will turn him down because they will remember this and worry he is doing it to them. Then you can sit back and smile. Karma. Your real friends will rally round and support you. Those that don’t perhaps need to be consigned to the “ex friends” bin. Hold your head high. You have done nothing wrong. This will be a 2 minute joke and everyone will be talking about something else soon enough. Be glad you found out what a little jerk this lad is.

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