A female Health And Fitness he-said-i-was-overthinking-things-and-now-its-all-awkward-what-do-i-do He said I was overthinking things and now it’s all awkward! What do I do? Relationship & Sex    age 26-29, anonymous writes:

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So, basically theres this guy ive been messaging, we know each other well due to his son being in the same class as my brother.

I decided to email him over the half term just to see how he was and that i missed him last week and kind of wanted to hear his voice.He then replys back with telling me about how his wife left him for his best friend and that he dosent have much to offer due to not comitting. So i said that she was silly and that anyone woman would love to have him.Then he replys hey again i dont have my son on a thur evening .do you perhaps want to come for a drink at some point. With a kiss at the end. So i said i cant really becuas i look after my brother for my mum when shes at work. He was like thats ok. Then we messaged a bit more. Then he says i think its good idea to stop whatever this is before its gets complicated or confussing. And that things can get out of hand to quickly and that all he can offer me is talking and nothing else really.Hes just got divorced before christmas. I then told him how I felt about him and he was like I think your over thinking things. So, now were not talking and he was like before i dont want any akwardness and nothings change. But when we see each other its full of akwadness.Not really sure what to doMany thanks

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A male reader, N91 Health And Fitness he-said-i-was-overthinking-things-and-now-its-all-awkward-what-do-i-do He said I was overthinking things and now it’s all awkward! What do I do? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (13 March 2019):

Health And Fitness he-said-i-was-overthinking-things-and-now-its-all-awkward-what-do-i-do He said I was overthinking things and now it’s all awkward! What do I do? Relationship & Sex    Didn’t you like the advice the last time you asked?

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A male reader, WiseOwlE Health And Fitness us He said I was overthinking things and now it’s all awkward! What do I do? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (12 March 2019):

Same question:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/divorced-guy-asked-me-for-drinks-then-backtracked.htmlHe’s not interested in anything. If it feels awkward, why pursue it any further? He suggested stopping whatever it is before it gets complicated or confusing. Seems pretty clear to me. He did say it would be confusing. So it is!My answer is the same as the first time.Give it a pass. Don’t bother.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2019):

He’s not ready to meet someone else. He’s brushing you off gently. You don’t have to do anything. Let it go.

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