Hi 6 years ago I met the man of my dreams I was madly in love with him and things were going well after a year of been together I fell pregnant and miscarried the baby the next day my boyfriend kicked me out of his flat no explanation as to why he kicked me out I had to get a taxi with all my belongings even tho he drove I was so hurt I see him about all the time he always stares at me I he keeps asking my friends how I am and he keeps saying to them he’s tried talking to me a couple of times but I won’t speak to him why would he want to talk to me after all these years now I know it’s not important now I’m just curious as to how someone could treat someone so bad then expect to talk to them like everything’s normal thank you for any answers
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A female reader, mystiquek + ♥, writes (30 November 2018):
I think your dream was actually a nightmare. Only a man who doesn’t give a damn about someone he supposedly loved would kick her out right after she miscarried. Sorry but that is just the lowest of the low! Who cares if he asks friends about you? He doesn’t care about you, he’s trying to give off the impression that he’s a caring guy and worried about you..um..he’s not. He’s a number one jerk. Tell your friends you don’t care what he asks, tell them from on to tell him nothing, and you no longer want to hear anything about the creep.
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A female reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (30 November 2018):
First off, OP I hope you have re-defined you idea of a “dream man” because no man worth a damned would kick his GF out right after she miscarried UNLESS he knew she has cheated or something worse.As for talking to him… why would you? And as for him asking mutual friend about you… it’s NOT because he cares but to make himself look like he is a caring guy. It’s about HIM, not you.Personally, someone like that… would be “dead” to me. any ANY friend who mentioned how he asked about you and blah blah, I would just tell them that I have no interest in him, talking about him or have anything to do about him so can we please change the subject?
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