my husband is very controlling he times my every move. tells me to pack my clothes when I try to go see my friend and says housework is women work. and we both work. he spends all the extra money we are about behind on our bills that I take care of and manipulates me about every thing. I need a break from working for him. I have no one to talk too my sister/best friend lost her marbles 4 years ago and never found them stiil hunting them. my dad died and my whole family fell apart and im in aprison of hate and disrespect by my husband that didn’t act like this til now.
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A female reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (30 September 2018):
How long have you been married?And is this who you see yourself with as you grow older?It sounds like a miserable existence.If you DO want to try to change things, I would suggest 1. that you sit down with him and make a budget, so you EACH get spending money.While HE might think chores are women’s work, they are not, so I’d suggest you STOP doing some of them. LIKE his laundry. Picking up after him should also be a no no and I would consider NOT cooking or catering to him for a while.You are both working. Why should YOU have 2 jobs and he only one? You work full-time out of the house and at home. That is ridiculous.I do 90% of the chores around here. BUT I also don’t work outside the home. And IF I need help or just want others to pitch in all I have to do is ask, my kids or my husband. Which is as it should be.What happened that changed your husband?
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