I’ve been with the same person for almost 6 years. he has never been super loving or supportive. but the last 2 years it seems like he is ignoring me more. we have had sex the entire relationship maybe 20 times. so sex less than 1 time a month. he doesn’t talk to me, he doesn’t plan things with me. it isn’t just me he ignores, everyone all the time. i think he just doesn’t like wasting time with dialog. i have asked him to speak with me more, or have sex, or just kiss me, or text me, but he doesn’t. but when we get in fights he is genuinely sorry for not doing these things. (im the first person he has slept with)
but he says he loves me, doesn’t want to see other people. for the last 2 years ive started to think maybe he is psychodynamic. he is very smart 2 degrees, top engineer at an isp and only 26 y/o. but it doesn’t excuse how he treats people, i don’t buy into that “so smart he doesn’t care about emotions” because i’ve seen him cry. i just want to be cuddled and kiss, but how can he become like that? or is this kind of person just always going to be concerned with their own happiest and no one else?I don’t want to end the relationship, he isnt abusive, he doesn’t hit me, or tell me how to dress, or who to hang out with. I just want to be touched and have conversation.
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