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I recently found out my wife of 12 years has been seeing a guy from work for the past 3 months. I found a messenger conversation between her and her friend. In it it says they are like love sick teenagers. She talks about getting caught with him in the supply cupboard at work. It says they have booked a hotel room together. She gave him a lift home and stopped off a few times at a carpark with him. The friend even encouraged her to invite him round to our house while I was working away one weekend and the kids were at her mums. She talks about how excited she was to see him and have a video on her phone showing her putting a ring on his finger beside his wedding ring.I confronted her with this and she says it was only a joke between her and her friend about being in the cupboard, and the hotel room and inviting him round and she still maintains that she has kissed him on a few occasions but never slept with him. Do you think she is still lying to me. Thanks

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice Health And Fitness i-found-evidence-that-my-wife-has-been-cheating-she-denies-it-is-she-lying I found evidence that my wife has been cheating. She denies it. Is she lying? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (6 January 2019):

Health And Fitness i-found-evidence-that-my-wife-has-been-cheating-she-denies-it-is-she-lying I found evidence that my wife has been cheating. She denies it. Is she lying? Relationship & Sex    By the typical pattern of cheating couples she is admitting to as little as possible. You may have confronted without enough evidence. Best thing to do at this point is to send your evidence to the other mans wife and your wife’s boss / HR dept. No need to tell her you are going to do this.

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A female reader, mystiquek Health And Fitness i-found-evidence-that-my-wife-has-been-cheating-she-denies-it-is-she-lying I found evidence that my wife has been cheating. She denies it. Is she lying? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (5 January 2019):

Health And Fitness i-found-evidence-that-my-wife-has-been-cheating-she-denies-it-is-she-lying-1 I found evidence that my wife has been cheating. She denies it. Is she lying? Relationship & Sex    Cheaters love the thrill of getting caught but they don’t want to get caught. You have evidence she cheated, she has admitted that she kissed him (and yes that is cheating both physically and emotionally). So what is your deal breaker? Yes I think she’s lying. when a cheater gets caught they normally will lie..lie..and lie some more to get out of things. What does your gut tell you? How much are you willing to put up? Only you can answer that. Would I trust her? Nope.

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness i-found-evidence-that-my-wife-has-been-cheating-she-denies-it-is-she-lying I found evidence that my wife has been cheating. She denies it. Is she lying? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (5 January 2019):

Health And Fitness 98df9f73-904a-4dd9-a948-14179b833b87 I found evidence that my wife has been cheating. She denies it. Is she lying? Relationship & Sex    Does it really matter whether she has slept with him or not?She is obviously (if nothing else) fantasizing and creating ELABORATE excuses to cover for the conversations with her friend.How is the marriage? Bad? Has it been bad a while? Have you BOTH been neglecting each other?I’m not saying it’s your fault that she is cheating (and yes, I think she is cheating, at LEAST emotionally if not also physically). It is now up to you to decide where to go from here. DO you want to stay married to a women you DO NOT trust? Whom you think is messing around with another man?YOU have to decide WHERE YOU want to go from here.Of course she denies it. If you want to stay married, I’d say marriage counseling is mandatory, and maybe even a job switch for her. And DEFINITELY working on fixing whatever is not working in your marriage.If you DO NOT want to stay married any longer, get your ducks in a row. DO NOT let her know what you are about to do. Talk to a solicitor.

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