A female Health And Fitness i-kissed-other-men-while-we-were-broken-up-now-back-together-did-i-cheat-on-him I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him? Relationship & Sex    age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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My boyfriend and I had split up for week, his decision and I was gutted but said I would respect his decision. I went out with a friend for a night out and i kissed two men.

I love my boyfriend and I was upset with it all. We have now got back together but did I cheat on him and should i tell him?

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A male reader, WiseOwlE Health And Fitness i-kissed-other-men-while-we-were-broken-up-now-back-together-did-i-cheat-on-him-1 I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 October 2018):

You kissed two men spitefully. You had only been apart for week, and didn’t consider the possibility he’d cool-off and you would make-up. You couldn’t give it a week? You were so upset kissing other guys was your only way to handle it?Had it not been publicly, where people might have seen you; you’d have nothing to worry about. It’s likely to get back to him, and you’ll breakup for good. If you were really all that messed-up over breaking-up; I don’t think you would have let another man near you! I think deep down inside, you wanted to hurt him. If it was his idea to breakup; he must have had reason(s). Now he’s got another. Spite came-back to bite you!Maybe he did the same and kissed other women, and you’re both even. If you start a cycle of on-again/off-again; it’s a hot mess of a relationship, and isn’t likely to work anyway. It means jealousy and/or possessiveness is what holds it together. If you know he’s jealous, your first move was to do something you knew would blow his mind. You hurt yourself as well. Two guys in one night?!! Seriously?!!

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness i-kissed-other-men-while-we-were-broken-up-now-back-together-did-i-cheat-on-him-1 I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 October 2018):

Health And Fitness i-kissed-other-men-while-we-were-broken-up-now-back-together-did-i-cheat-on-him I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him? Relationship & Sex    I am with N91,Relationships that takes breaks or NEED breaks are not viable long term.Relationships that DO work is when you can TALK about this, compromise, trust and respect each other.If you felt so inferior to his exes, is that something you have worked on while on break or was all you did kiss other dudes to fill a void and get attention?Do you expect your BF to cater to your insecurities about his exes? As is constantly tell you that you are better, that he cares more etc.? HE IS NOT responsible for fixing your insecurities. YOU are.Because that isn’t realistic.HE was/is with you because he WANTS to be with you, not his exes.If he (however) still keeps contact with exes, then you will have to consider if you want to date a guy who hangs on to exes or not.You need to WORK on your insecurities and the reason you FEEL like you weren’t as loved/cared for and WHY you think you have to compare yourself to his exes.Why do I say that? Because if you don’t… you will REPEAT the past over and over with this guy.

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Health And Fitness i-kissed-other-men-while-we-were-broken-up-now-back-together-did-i-cheat-on-him-2 I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 October 2018):

Health And Fitness i-kissed-other-men-while-we-were-broken-up-now-back-together-did-i-cheat-on-him-1 I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him? Relationship & Sex    Ross and Rachel have re-defined “we were in a break” and we’ve all learnt that no good ever comes out of it.Splitting for a week is not just extremely childish and immature, it also goes to show how ill equipped he is to deal with problems. While you didn’t do anything wrong kissing the other guys, you can be pretty sure that your relationship is fast approaching it’s expiry date.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2018):

We have been together 18 months, love each other but I constantly compare myself to his exes and how he felt about them compared to me.We had a silly argument which led to me comparing how he felt about them. No I don’t think for one minute he is interested in anyone else and I’m not either, I just felt rejected.We both want to work things out and move forward but I kissed them and I feel guilty

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious Health And Fitness i-kissed-other-men-while-we-were-broken-up-now-back-together-did-i-cheat-on-him I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 October 2018):

Health And Fitness cb00d1ef-0a14-495d-ae29-55bd6b6b2f04 I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him? Relationship & Sex    No, you didn’t cheat. He chose to put the relationship on temporary hold. Are you just back together because he couldn’t find someone else or because you really want to be together? Like N91, I am always dubious when people need a “break”.

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A male reader, N91 Health And Fitness i-kissed-other-men-while-we-were-broken-up-now-back-together-did-i-cheat-on-him I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 October 2018):

Health And Fitness 977e3106-6f9b-4a08-abba-678cab1a22f1 I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him? Relationship & Sex    I don’t beat around the bush when it comes to cheaters, they are the lowest of the low and I am always very blunt with them when they come to this site.I wouldn’t class what you did as cheating as when you’re on a break you’re technically not together and can do as you please. I will add that whenever a relationship needs a break, it really doesn’t bode well for the future. In all honesty I think they’re pointless, they’re the sign of a dying relationship and showing that something isn’t working. It’s usually a case of the issue in question being temporarily fixed before it comes back into play.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2018):

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