A female Health And Fitness i-lied-to-my-b-f-that-ive-never-done-anal-and-now-i-am-afraid-hell-know I lied to my b/f that I've never done anal and now I am afraid he'll know Relationship & Sex    age 18-21, *eila_soufi writes:

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Hey guys, well i’ve been lying to my boyfriend honestly about having anal, i did it before so many times and now he insist about doing it and im afraid he will notice that im not tight, well is there any type of way that i can save this situation ?

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A male reader, WiseOwlE Health And Fitness i-lied-to-my-b-f-that-ive-never-done-anal-and-now-i-am-afraid-hell-know-1 I lied to my b/f that I've never done anal and now I am afraid he'll know Relationship & Sex     + , writes (26 September 2018):

You feel guilty due to the lying. Maybe he’s the wrong guy; if you feel you have to lie to avoid being judged. Do you have anal-sex because YOU like it; or do you feel you have to do anything a boy wants to please him in order to make him your boyfriend? Something about this post is off.Don’t do things that make you feel you have to lie out of shame. If you fear being judged by guys; you must being doing things you really don’t want to do. Now you’ve found a guy you want to respect you.Maybe in the past you’d do whatever; because you want to be popular; or feel to keep a guy you have to do anything he asks. You’re lying, because you like this guy, but you want him to respect you. Unless you really want it, you can say no. He could judge you for agreeing to it.Skip the anal-sex with this guy; because you felt compelled to lie to him. Something isn’t right.Tell us more about him and why you feel you should be pure in order not to be judged by him; when it didn’t seem to matter with the other guys you’ve been with. You can talk to us. Explain. What’s different about him?

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness i-lied-to-my-b-f-that-ive-never-done-anal-and-now-i-am-afraid-hell-know-1 I lied to my b/f that I've never done anal and now I am afraid he'll know Relationship & Sex     + , writes (26 September 2018):

Health And Fitness 98df9f73-904a-4dd9-a948-14179b833b87 I lied to my b/f that I've never done anal and now I am afraid he'll know Relationship & Sex    Is anal something you WANT to do? Or not?IF you want to do it with him, either BE honest…. or just do it.Just like not all vaginas are the same size, I’d presume butts are a little like that too. Except, with the anus you can stretch the sphincter and (unlike the vagina) it doesn’t retract fully to normal.Why are you lying to your BF? If you are worried he might judge you, then he is the right guy for you?You obviously had no issues doing anal with others, so why the lies?And I hope you use condoms EVERY time. You can get JUST as many STD’s from anal sex as you can from regular sex.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2018):

Play dumb? Insist you never had anal sex. And never waiver on that fact. Say you have no idea why it goes in so easy. Maybe your anatomy is different? Or just act like it hurts or you’re afraid when he tries to go in. And definitely use lubrication because if you do, you can use the excuse that it must go in easily because of the lube.

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