Hi I am need of some guidance at the minute and hope you can help!
I first met Tim when I was at school, we were close friends and always shared a fondness of each other until teenage years when we lost touch. 12 years ago we became in contact again when our children became friends. We were both in other relationships and there was never any suggestion of anything romantic between us, just a mutual fondness of each other. I separated from my children’s father 10 years ago and haven’t found anyone since that I wanted a serious relationship with. About 3-4 years ago Tim and his wife separated and he asked me out. I said no because it was clear he was still in love with her and wanted to stay go back for the children which he eventually did. A couple of months ago he messaged me again and told me that he was separated from his wife again, things hadn’t been good for years and he wanted to date me. I was flattered but again told him that he needed to give the break up some time to make sure he knew what he wanted. He secured himself a new property and has put everything in place to financially support his children . Over the last few weeks we have spoken daily and met up a couple of times. The first time was strictly friends, the second we kissed and cuddled and it felt amazing! The thing is I am torn between my head saying stay out of it and protect myself and my heart telling me to grasp this chance of happiness! I feel extremely guilty that I am involved in any way with this. I really like him far more than I want to … please offer me your honest advice here, Thankyou xx
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A female reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (21 March 2019):
I would tell him you two need to cool it until the divorce is final.That way HE gets time to decide IF he really wants a divorce and move on from his marriage and wife or not and YOU don’t get caught in the middle.
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