A female Health And Fitness i-think-hes-going-through-a-midlife-crisis-he-went-to-thailand-and-met-a-girl-and-he-doesnt-know-that-i-know I think he's going through a midlife crisis he went to Thailand and met a girl and he doesn't know that I know Relationship & Sex    age 41-50, anonymous writes:

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I have been dating a man for over a year who has just recently gone through a divorce. (Nothing to do with me). I felt he used me as a punching bag as he was very angry about the divorce although I knew he loved me.

He stopped speaking to me for a while then i found out he has been speaking to a Thai girl on line for a while and even went to Thailand and met her. (He does not know I know this). He has a problem with sex so I dont think anything sexual happened. He continues to speak to this Thai girl. Both declaring their love for each other in 6 weeks of first speaking.Its clearly a sign of mid life crisis. I see this as a rebound relationship as it all happened very quickly after his divorce. Not sure if its to hurt the ex or me.He communicated to me through a friend of his that he needs space at the moment and speaks highly of me. I still love this guy. He has hurt me and my feelings are different but this thai girl is in Thailand and we are both in the UK. She posts a lot of things to get his reaction but he does not post anything about her.I was tempted to let him know that I know about her. What do you all think. I’m giving it until xmas. I will give him the space he needs. But I will then need to move on. Please remember I am emotionally connected with this guy so telling me to forget him is not useful.

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