I have a crush on this guy ( let’s call him K ) We used to study in the same class. I went to another class now so we don’t see each other often. Back when we were in the same class, he used to talk to me and tease me a lot. I think he liked me, but he never confess his love to me.
About a month ago, I was talking to this girl who is currently studying in the same class with him.We haven’t been talking to each other for a few months. We accidentally met each other during the break time so we had a chat, we were talking about random stuffs. But then i started to open up more about personal things of me, therefore I randomly said “It’s funny you know. K used to tease me a lot. I think he used to like me” I said it in a funny way and thought her reaction would be like “Yeah yeah haha” but instead she was quite shocked. I didn’t know why she reacted like that. I thought everyone knows that. After saw her reaction, I realized I was so stupid for saying that. After that day, I started to notice something strange about my crush. He never said hi to me and waved at me when we met anymore. He started to ignore me and even avoided me when he saw me. He was so cold toward me, I fell really sad and I think that that girl has told him about what I said. Maybe he think I’m so weird, that’s why he avoid me. Today i met him again at the canteen, he always sat next to me but now he kept a distance between us when he sat down. I fell very awful. I just want us to be normal like the old days. I think it’s my fault. I should have never revealed my secret out.Do you guys think I should ask that girl if she told him about that? Do you think I should talk to him?
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A female reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (30 November 2018):
Nope, don’t ask her and remember that you CAN NOT trust someone you don’t know well with personal info like that.SHE might like him too and used the info to make HIM think you are full of yourself.As for him, keep being polite but try not to put yourself in his path or where he sits. Play it cool.IF she told him what you told her, he might feel awkward around you. She might have said something else to him that makes him not want to interact with you and even if you ASK her… I doubt she will be honest and tell you.So play it cool and remember this girl is NOT your friend and the guy… might not be as interested as you think.
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