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Hi! I’m 29 and got married last year. I’m happy with my husband, but my ex bf still calls me despite he being married. He says that he can’t forget me, and still wants me. I cleared the air that I’m happy with my husband and won’t ever leave him for anything whatsoever. The reason why I left my ex was that he was a cheating scumbag. He cheated on me while there were a few months to go before the supposed wedding of mine with him 2.5 years ago, and married the woman with whom he had slept with. I moved on and was doing great until he started to pester me. He lives in my city and knows my husband’s colleagues. What do I do? My husband is a great man, and I don’t want him to be involved in the mess. But I want to teach the pig a lesson. Any suggestions?

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A male reader, N91 Health And Fitness i-want-to-teach-my-cheating-ex-a-lesson-1 I want to teach my cheating ex a lesson Relationship & Sex     + , writes (5 March 2019):

Health And Fitness i-want-to-teach-my-cheating-ex-a-lesson I want to teach my cheating ex a lesson Relationship & Sex    You aren’t over your ex clearly. If you were, you would block him and ignore his contact. The simple fact that you want to hurt him shows that he’s still occupying your thoughts. He cheated, you re-married, let it go, block and move on.

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A female reader, ClairM Health And Fitness i-want-to-teach-my-cheating-ex-a-lesson-1 I want to teach my cheating ex a lesson Relationship & Sex     + , writes (5 March 2019):

Your revenge is you moved on and you’re happy, if you start trying to create karma things may well backfire.His punishment is he lost you, block him and get on with your life with your husband, his shitty behaviour led you to a decent man

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious Health And Fitness i-want-to-teach-my-cheating-ex-a-lesson-1 I want to teach my cheating ex a lesson Relationship & Sex     + , writes (5 March 2019):

Health And Fitness i-want-to-teach-my-cheating-ex-a-lesson-1 I want to teach my cheating ex a lesson Relationship & Sex    Such a shame that you are not over the ex yet, especially given that you have a lovely husband now. The opposite of love is not hate; it is indifference. Until you get to a point where you can just casually shrug off any contact from your ex and not even think about it, you are not over him and he is living, rent free, inside your head. Why would you want revenge on him? He showed his true colours years ago and you came out on top because you met someone loving and honest. While I can understand why you might get some satisfaction from him wanting you back, don’t put your marriage at risk because you want “revenge”. You already have YOUR revenge: you are happy without him – or so you say. Block all contact. If needs be, tell your husband and let HIM contact him and tell him to leave you alone. Your ex and the woman he cheated with deserve each other. If she got him through cheating, she will also lose him to cheating. Get on with your own life.

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A female reader, Ivyblue Health And Fitness i-want-to-teach-my-cheating-ex-a-lesson-2 I want to teach my cheating ex a lesson Relationship & Sex     + , writes (5 March 2019):

Health And Fitness 4ce60418-664b-499c-9092-aa5f0356724a I want to teach my cheating ex a lesson Relationship & Sex    Revenge may well lead to revenge. Speak to your husband. Id even call him on speaker phone while your husband is there and tell him straight. if need be let your husband do the same.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2019):

I agree, you should change your phone number and if your ex continue harassing you tell your husband.Your ex does not love you, he wants what he can’t have, he was marrying you but slept with someone else and married her, now you are married he claims to love you and wants you back. If you get back with him he will cheat again. He is bad news, do not let him back in your life and do not let him destroy your marriage, he is a scumbag. I agree you should not think of revenge the best revenge is to be happy and live a happy life.

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A male reader, WiseOwlE Health And Fitness us I want to teach my cheating ex a lesson Relationship & Sex     + , writes (5 March 2019):

Change your phone number. You really should inform your husband that you’re being harassed. Not sure why you’re even entertaining any communication from your ex when you’re married. Don’t stir-up unnecessary drama; or it just might backfire.If he can’t reach you and you’re no contact; the matter is resolved.If you love your husband; your ex and all that nonsense about him should be in the past. Now you’re talking about vengeance? Get-over him. You’re a married-woman now; and have no time for this drama.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2019):

Yeh! get on with your marriage and have a great life with your HUSBAND, your x past should have no part in your life now. Revenge, such a waste of energy that could be put into healthy loving. Doomed to fail if you keep delving into your failed past and greatley unfair to a new marriage. Just been ‘happy’ should teach the piggy wiggy a lesson.Smile Laugh and Love a lot.Revenge does not fit into the equation of happiness.

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