I work as a cam girl on a website. This is actually my second job to make extra cash. My boyfriend was aware of this before we started dating.
Few days back he thought that since I was working as a cam girl it made it ok for him to join one of those sites and pay girls to perform for him on cam. I was upset when I found out about this and politely asked him not to visit that site anymore as it was considered cheating. I also asked him not to waste anymore of his money on that site and rather spend it on something that could benefit him in the long run. I knew he would defend his actions by bringing up my secondary profession which he did. He called me a hypocrite. I tried to tell him that he and I have different motives when we’re visiting those sites. He disagreed with me and argued that I get pleasure out of it too. I have to admit that on some occasions I did get pleasure out of it. I know I’m going to get attacked for this. But, my main purpose is to make more money which I’m in desperate need of. And, I can’t simply quit because I can’t avoid getting aroused at times. I even asked my boyfriend if we could work as a team on that site but he refused saying it wasn’t his thing. I also offered that I could do a striptease for him or something in case he got horny but he again refused and said that preferred watching other girls on cam. Now, I don’t know what to do. I can’t give up my second job. I also can’t tolerate my boyfriend giving money to other cam girls and watching them. Am I really a hypocrite?
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A female reader, Ciar + ♥, writes (2 December 2018):
Yep. You are. It doesn’t matter if your boyfriend knew of your second job before you began dating and it doesn’t matter WHY you do it. What matters is you do it. There are plenty of other ways to make money besides the sex trade. Keep life simple. Don’t do what you don’t want someone else to do. Just curious…if making money is the ‘main purpose’ for your cam work, what is the other purpose?
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