Been with my partner for about a year and half (the first year was spent being long distance) before he moved back up here where we see each other every weekend (due to work).
Lately, I have felt we are arguing/disagreeing more and I’m getting upset about little things. It doesn’t help that I feel I am competing with his 5 flatmates. I don’t think they really like me and it’s an awkward atmosphere when I am round at his, resulting in me just wanting to spend time with him rather than integrating with the flat. He has just recently told me that he doesn’t know what I want from us. That it’s me vs the flatmates. And now I’m questioning if I’m getting in the way of his other life. That was a bit of a ramble but I’m just left feeling like I don’t know where to stand. And I’ve tried to explain this but I can’t seem to find the right words.
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