A female Health And Fitness im-willing-to-leave-my-husband-but-my-married-lover-isnt-saying-anything-about-leaving-his-wife I'm willing to leave my husband but my married lover isn't saying anything about leaving his wife Relationship & Sex    age 36-40, anonymous writes:

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Iv been having an affair for a couple of years now and decided to end my marriage. I’m living with a friend but my married lover is still staying put. I said it was my problem about leaving my husband but he said he was still worried for me. He thought I was going to leave my husband once my youngest son reached 18 but I said things have changed now. I haven’t asked him to leave his wife because that should be his decision. The thing is he hasn’t said anything about leaving his wife….. I know he is torn because he has grown up children and very close to them but where does that leave me? Is my lover waiting to see if I will go back to my husband or not? That’s why he’s keeping quiet?

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious Health And Fitness im-willing-to-leave-my-husband-but-my-married-lover-isnt-saying-anything-about-leaving-his-wife I'm willing to leave my husband but my married lover isn't saying anything about leaving his wife Relationship & Sex     + , writes (13 October 2018):

Health And Fitness im-willing-to-leave-my-husband-but-my-married-lover-isnt-saying-anything-about-leaving-his-wife I'm willing to leave my husband but my married lover isn't saying anything about leaving his wife Relationship & Sex    I had a friend who did what you did. She eventually went back to her husband because her lover completely refused to leave his wife, even after she had told her about the affair. It was only when the cheated-on wife found someone else and kicked out her cheating husband that he went to the lover. Your lover has no intention of leaving his wife or family. They are his priority and that is the way it should be. You were his bit on the side. He would have happily kept things the way they were, with him having his cosy family life and you for a bit of extra. It was your choice to leave your husband. Obviously your marriage was not good, otherwise you would not have left. This does not, however, mean your lover owes you anything. If you are waiting for him to leave his wife and come to you, you will most likely have a long wait. Either repair your marriage or divorce your husband and move on and find someone who makes you his priority.

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A female reader, Andie’s Thoughts Health And Fitness im-willing-to-leave-my-husband-but-my-married-lover-isnt-saying-anything-about-leaving-his-wife I'm willing to leave my husband but my married lover isn't saying anything about leaving his wife Relationship & Sex     + , writes (13 October 2018):

Health And Fitness im-willing-to-leave-my-husband-but-my-married-lover-isnt-saying-anything-about-leaving-his-wife-1 I'm willing to leave my husband but my married lover isn't saying anything about leaving his wife Relationship & Sex    It’s good you’ve finally stepped up and set your poor husband free, but you really don’t want to be with a cheater because it’s usually only only a matter of time before they cheat on you – you can never trust each other.Anyway, it took you long enough to leave, so he’ll continue taking his sweet time – probably only leaving if his wife makes him. “Where does that leave me?” It leaves you as someone who betrayed her husbands trust for years, just to be the side piece of a man who never intends to leave his marriage. If you weren’t happy in your marriage, you should have left, not begin an affair. Say your children find out when they’re older – how will they view you? How will they learn what’s acceptable in relationships when you’ve given such a poor example?Time to work on your own life as a single woman and stop the affair. Give him the ultimatum: “me or your wife”. Don’t waste your life on a man who won’t leave his marriage when telling you he wants to.

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness us I'm willing to leave my husband but my married lover isn't saying anything about leaving his wife Relationship & Sex     + , writes (13 October 2018):

Health And Fitness 98df9f73-904a-4dd9-a948-14179b833b87 I'm willing to leave my husband but my married lover isn't saying anything about leaving his wife Relationship & Sex    No, he isn’t waiting to see what you do. He just doesn’t WANT to leave his family and marriage. Not even for you.Keep working on your future as if he isn’t a part of it. Because part from the sex and spending time, he really isn’t.Finish the divorce. find yourself a place you can afford and live life, don’t sit on your hands and wait for him to make that choice. It might never happen.And yes, it should be his decisions to leave his wife or not. And he should have made that choice A LONG time ago, so should you.

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