I recently relocated to a new city. Within a month of moving in, my neighbor introduced himself and I was immediately stricken and attracted to him. The other day he stopped over and we ended up having drinks with neighbors and friends. He kept complimenting me and even walked me home that night. We stood there talking and he kept asking why I was still single. He told me if I ever needed anything to let him know. He mentioned exchanging numbers at some point. He also asked if I’d be open for talking without telling them neighbors what we talk about. Not really sure what that means. He said I shouldn’t ever change how I am and that he enjoyed some of my mannerisms. I added him to my social media accounts that night and he accepted the next morning. I do not know how to proceed. Is he interested or being a polite neighbor?
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A female reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (28 March 2019):
He is single himself, correct?So next time he ASKS you WHY you are single… ask him why HE is single.He actually said he enjoyed SOME of your mannerism? What an odd thing to say. It ALMOST imply that he also DISLIKES OTHER of your mannerism, wouldn’t you say? Telling someone “don’t EVER change who you are” it’s surely meant as a compliment but can so easy be a tad patronizing too. HE IS a stranger and it’s NONE of his business how you act/behave.This is a guy you BARELY know.You live right next door to him. So IF I were you I’d tread carefully.You got introduced to other neighbors but he wants you not share what HE tells you. Is that because they all KNOW him?You have added him on social media, LET him do some leg work now, but DO NOT jump into bed with this man just because he is handsome and a little charming.I’d go REAL REAL slow here.
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A female reader, singinbluebird + ♥, writes (28 March 2019):
He is interested but don’t ask him out. Let him make first move and be man and ask you out, just continue be open and enthusiastic around him and feminine. Good luck ! ??
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