A female Health And Fitness is-he-playing-games-with-me-online Is he playing games with me online? Relationship & Sex    age 26-29, anonymous writes:

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I went on a couple dates several months ago with this guy. Our dates were really fun and physical but we never did anything sexual, just kissed. We made plans for our third date but when I checked in to confirm, he never replied, deleted me from the dating site we met on and ghosted me for a whole month! He came back afterwards and gave me a lame excuse for his behavior but I never answered him. He kept showing up on my dating profile feed but I always bypassed him. Finally, six months later he showed up again on there and just out of curiosity, I “liked” him and low and behold, we matched again. Does this mean he wants to see me again? Why is he playing games?

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A female reader, CindyCares Health And Fitness is-he-playing-games-with-me-online-1 Is he playing games with me online? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (24 January 2019):

Health And Fitness is-he-playing-games-with-me-online Is he playing games with me online? Relationship & Sex    Because that’s the nature of the game. What happened is lamentable but not unusual at all. Many people like to have options, and to keep them open if possible. Probably this guy liked you- but not THAT much ; he wanted to see what else was out there, or he was dating multiple women from the get -go. His alternatives must not have worked out to his satisfaction , so in a few months … back to plan B .Sorry, but- only yourself to blame, I’d say. Why, he ghosts you , even deletes you , then he pops up again with an excuse that you say yourself it’s ” lame “- and then you “like ” him again ? What’s there to ” like ” ? unless you like to be ghosted and lied to ? It was out of curiosity, ok- but curiosity killed the cat. I’d suggest you to address your curiosity, from now on, towardpeople who do not give you the run around and show you at least that basic courtesy of cancelling dates in advance if they have a change of heart.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2019):

I agree with N91, he already made his bed. At the very least he could have replied to you, even if it was to say he was no longer interested. I think to block you is very immature. I’m not sure why he is playing games but lots of guys act like this if they are speaking to multiple women or the player type. If a guy really likes you, you will know about it, and wouldn’t have to type a question asking about it, trust me 🙂 unless he decides to come to you and make a genuine effort to make it up to you, then he’s not worth it

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A male reader, N91 Health And Fitness is-he-playing-games-with-me-online-2 Is he playing games with me online? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (24 January 2019):

Health And Fitness is-he-playing-games-with-me-online-1 Is he playing games with me online? Relationship & Sex    Who cares what he wants?He deleted and blocked you for a month for no reason, does that sound like someone you want to get romantically involved with? Sounds like very immature behaviour. Block and move on

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