A female Health And Fitness isnt-it-weird-for-a-man-to-have-pictures-like-these-on-his-phone Isn’t it weird for a man to have pictures like these on his phone? Relationship & Sex    age 41-50, anonymous writes:

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I chatted online to someone who seemed really lovely. He told me that he was very needy, I am done with needy men but I thought I shall give him a chance.

We met, he was lovely but he talked too much which irritating me, while he was showing me pictures of his family (he is a widow), I saw pictures of cocks. I did not say anything but he saw my facial expression and explained that it was things that his clients send to him.He was married and has 4 kids, but I find it weird for a man to have such pictures on his phone.Am I right to see red flags. Do I give him a chance or tell him that there is no chemistry rather than go into the picture issue?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2019):

To be honest, there is only one reason a guy has dick pics on his phone. They are his and he has been sexting other girls. Make of that what you will.

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A female reader, CindyCares Health And Fitness isnt-it-weird-for-a-man-to-have-pictures-like-these-on-his-phone-1 Isn’t it weird for a man to have pictures like these on his phone? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (13 March 2019):

Health And Fitness isnt-it-weird-for-a-man-to-have-pictures-like-these-on-his-phone Isn’t it weird for a man to have pictures like these on his phone? Relationship & Sex    It’s not weird if he sells exotic poultry for a living, and his clients send him pictures of Silkie Bantams, or Sumatras, or other rare chicken : “Please send me a cock just like the one in the alleged pic… “…But for some reason I don’t think this is the kind of cocks we are talking about, so yeah, it’s weird. Or maybe not really weird, lots of people have homosexual fantasies, but to SAVE dick pics , and to be so casual in sharing them with you, … off-putting, isn’t it ?That’s a moot point, though. Or at least it should be. You say that you are done with needy men . First thing he does, he admits he is very needy. And you- want to give him a chance . Why ?!

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A male reader, N91 Health And Fitness isnt-it-weird-for-a-man-to-have-pictures-like-these-on-his-phone Isn’t it weird for a man to have pictures like these on his phone? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (13 March 2019):

Health And Fitness isnt-it-weird-for-a-man-to-have-pictures-like-these-on-his-phone-1 Isn’t it weird for a man to have pictures like these on his phone? Relationship & Sex    ‘I am done with needy men but I thought I will give him a chance’ So you’re not done with them then?You’ve already told us that you don’t want to date this kind of man again so why do you neee advice to tell you not to do it?

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Health And Fitness isnt-it-weird-for-a-man-to-have-pictures-like-these-on-his-phone-1 Isn’t it weird for a man to have pictures like these on his phone? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (13 March 2019):

Health And Fitness b3f6484a-6c15-446d-a642-ae5a426fe44b Isn’t it weird for a man to have pictures like these on his phone? Relationship & Sex    Omg you still have to consider? Cut him off immediately with no explanation whatsoever because he isn’t worth any of it. Please run for the hills… immediately!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2019):

Yes it’s weird. What kind of business is he in where clients would send cock pics to him and why would he keep them? He’s described himself as very needy. He talks too much which was irritating to you, although he may have been nervous. But most disturbing of all were the cock pics, which he didn’t seem to mind showing you. Red flags all over the place. Let him down gently and move on.

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A male reader, WiseOwlE Health And Fitness us Isn’t it weird for a man to have pictures like these on his phone? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (13 March 2019):

Run for the hills! Straight-men don’t save dick pics on their phones! Why would he have pictures of his client’s penises on his phone? Is he in the sex-trade?Why would he have them on his personal phone??? You can’t possibly be that naive!This guy is a wacko! Cut all ties, delete and block!Don’t get into a big discussion or mention the pictures. Get out quickly. Be short, sweet, and to the point. Make sure he doesn’t contact you anymore.He’s waving big red-banners and alarms are going-off!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2019):

On your first date his incessant chatter annoyed you even before you saw cocks on his phone.They’re likely not to be cocks sent to him by his clients, most likely dick pics taken of his own bits.Regardless of why he’s concealing his reasons for this, he’s annoying! Can’t you really find someone better?Imagine his wittering in a month, six months, six years. As someone in their forties, have you really got time to waste on an annoying guy?

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A female reader, ClairM Health And Fitness isnt-it-weird-for-a-man-to-have-pictures-like-these-on-his-phone Isn’t it weird for a man to have pictures like these on his phone? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (12 March 2019):

So many red flags they are blazing in full glory. He is needy, he is self absorbed and he has pictures of penises on his mobile. I would have been put off just with him admitting he is needy, but the other things, erm well,and you are still thinking of giving this man a chance, why?

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