A male Health And Fitness iv-recently-found-out-my-wife-has-had-sex-with-women Iv recently found out my wife has had sex with women Relationship & Sex    age 41-50, anonymous writes:

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Hi, found this site accidentally while googling my issue. Ive been with someone 28 years and married 25 years, been together since late teens, thought everything was ok but now I know isnt. Iv recently found out my wife has had sex on more that a few occasions with other women.

She told me first time was a few years back when in Liverpool with friends on hens party away. She said she used a female escort over there and here friend did also, separately. She been using dating sites to meet other women for sex since. She says she doesnt want us to break up but doesnt think she can stop her sexual feelings for women. Iv told her if it was with the same woman possibly I could handle it, but with different women isnt an option. I need to say I do have health issues that has effected my sex drive and also nerve damage in my spine.I dont want marriage to go and understand she has needs but still very shocked and a bit stressed.Opinions please?thanks.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2018):

Not everyone will agree with me on this, but you’ve been together a long time and realistically cheating is very common. I’m not saying it’s ok, but it does happen, and some marriages do survive it. Does she love you? I think she needs to make a decision; you, or the single life. If she chooses you, she needs to commit to being loyal to you, and working together with you to build back your trust. If she truly loves you, she’ll work with you on this. But if she feels this may happen again, she needs to be single and not continue to hurt you. I really think you should talk to her and see where she stands. If you aren’t intimate together, is that something you can work on?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2018):

She’s cheating on you. She wants to have her cake and eat it. She needs to stop or she needs to let you go.

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A male reader, N91 Health And Fitness iv-recently-found-out-my-wife-has-had-sex-with-women-1 Iv recently found out my wife has had sex with women Relationship & Sex     + , writes (21 September 2018):

Health And Fitness iv-recently-found-out-my-wife-has-had-sex-with-women Iv recently found out my wife has had sex with women Relationship & Sex    I don’t think it matters whether the person was Male or female. The fact here is that she’s cheated on you on multiple occasions. She’s disrespected you and your marriage in the biggest way possible. How did you find out? What was her side of the story?Can you go on knowing you’ve been cheated on and lied to? Can you trust her anymore?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2018):

Sorry but I think your wife is in denial on who she is, she is a lesbian so surely she is living a lie in being married to you? If you was having sex with different men would that be acceptable in the confines of a marriage?It’s your call on this but you are making excuses for her cheating which she has been doing for years.

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