Max Nachamkin had a radical idea.
Instead of busying himself with routines, gimmicks or any false posturing he decided to do nothing – literally.
He was in the middle of a crowded bar, with many attractive girls, and instead of posing in any way, shape or form he decided to stand in one place and simply watch what happened – inside and outside of himself.
His body filled with judgement and insecurity. He remained still and observed. He dug deep and faced himself – directly.
After about an hour, his inner state had transformed into full acceptance and openness. That’s when the cutest girl in the place just “happened” to bump into him…
In a world jammed with tips and techniques, Max Nachamkin is a much needed breath of fresh air.
Max believes that he can eliminate all insecurity within himself, and is doing a damn fine job of it. His approach (if it can be called that) is radical. Instead of covering up our feelings of insecurity with busyness, activity or technique – he simply stands and deals with what is.
And by doing so, he’s able to winnow his way to the other side…fully past the negativity, in a place of love and acceptance.
Max believes that when we feel negativity – in any form – that we should feel and experience it fully. And, the main reason why emotional patterns stick around is precisely because we haven’t fully digested what IS.
I’m 100% sure you are going to learn something in this conversation between myself and Max – I sure did. Much of what he talks about is radical in this world where we seek to fix any/everything with some cosmetic solution.
Max’s wisdom is far beyond his years, and I’m most grateful to him for being my guest on this episode of the Lifestyle Arts Podcast.
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