A female Health And Fitness my-brother-is-too-touchy-feely-with-his-girlfriend-in-public-and-its-embarrassing My brother is too touchy-feely with his girlfriend in public and it's embarrassing! Relationship & Sex    age 30-35, *oncerned sister writes:

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My younger brother is 25 he is dating a really nice girl who just turned 20. He is a good kid, never been in trouble before. It’s very plan to see that he is head over heels in love with her and she is with him. The only problem is he is very hands on, liekAlways touching her. He hand is on her ass or rubbing it, kissing her etc and when he drinks it’s worse. Last night we all went to a bar he I was embarrassed for both of them. He basically groped her all night. At one point he has his hands up her dress in the dance floor and my bf swears he was fingering bee later in the night. It was actually quite disturbing to see. She is only young and I wouldHate for her to get a bad name because if their drunken behaviour and it looksSo disrespectful towards her that he is doing this in public. My bf thinks I should stay out of it but I feelLiek someone should tell him how bad it looks

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A female reader, Andie’s Thoughts Health And Fitness my-brother-is-too-touchy-feely-with-his-girlfriend-in-public-and-its-embarrassing-1 My brother is too touchy-feely with his girlfriend in public and it's embarrassing! Relationship & Sex     + , writes (2 January 2019):

Health And Fitness my-brother-is-too-touchy-feely-with-his-girlfriend-in-public-and-its-embarrassing My brother is too touchy-feely with his girlfriend in public and it's embarrassing! Relationship & Sex    Yeah, you tell him. Kissing is fine, a hand on her butt is fine in a club, but I hand up her skirt in public is 100% a major no-no. It might just be her age and inexperience meaning she’s not confident enough to tell him not in public or it might be both of them drunk and/or naive, so I think you should have a private chat with him about it from a girl’s perspective, a sister’s perspective and that of someone seeing it in public.Don’t have a go argue about it, just let him know that it’s inappropriate even in the club because people don’t want to see that and it could get her reputation whilst leaving him in the clear because he’s a guy. Again, don’t mention “fingering” (eww!) because you don’t know that for sure, just say it’s inappropriate for him to have his hand up her skirt in public.If he wouldn’t do that when sober, I think it was him trying to get a thrill from them being in public, which she may or may not have wanted in that way.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2019):

Are you and your brother close and do you feel you can talk to him? Yes it is a difficult one and i guess your boyfriend thinks you should both stay out of it but if your concerns outweigh that then as has been suggested take your brother to one side and tell him how you feel and how you feel it looks and might impact on his girlfriend. At the end of the day we all have desires and when you first start dating someone it is new and exciting but we don’t all go about being all over our partners, i agree there is a time and a place..Hope it goes well if you decide to speak to him

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness my-brother-is-too-touchy-feely-with-his-girlfriend-in-public-and-its-embarrassing-2 My brother is too touchy-feely with his girlfriend in public and it's embarrassing! Relationship & Sex     + , writes (2 January 2019):

Health And Fitness my-brother-is-too-touchy-feely-with-his-girlfriend-in-public-and-its-embarrassing-1 My brother is too touchy-feely with his girlfriend in public and it's embarrassing! Relationship & Sex    Since he is YOUR brother it might not be bad coming from you.Tell him you are happy that he has found someone but that he isn’t being very respectful of her. That groping her and well fingering her at a nightclub it’s just tacky and crude.That maybe he should SHOW his affection is a bit more PG13 way in public. Because she is so much younger than him she might not have tried to “resist” or set boundaries with him so he is crossing the lines of “respectful behavior.IF you do decide to have a little chat with him… Do it just the two of you.

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