Hello I have been with my husband for two years. He is good to me and treats me well. We have culture differences and maybe that’s what I am trying to understand.
He has alot of friends but one is very close to him. If his Male friend jokes around he spanks him. They sit together and look at his cell phone. When I’m not around they share the same bed. My husband walks around in his underwear and tends to bend over on front of his friend alot. Also seems to adjust his junk alot. It is almost like hes trying to get his attention. It’s very difficult to set h. I have asked my husband if he can quit walking around in his underwear and adjusting his junk so much but he tells me this is normal in his culture. His friend acts feminine high pitched voice and behaves oddly. Is this a cultural thing or bisexual thing ?
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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious + ♥, writes (5 January 2019):
What is your gut instinct telling you on this one? As you have taken the time and trouble to write in, you are quite obviously uncomfortable with this “relationship” between your husband and his “friend”. Does your husband work or are you supporting him? I ask because, reading between the lines, it sounds like you have been used as a meal ticket/to get a visa while your gay and/or bisexual husband carries on his life as he wishes. You have a gut instinct for good reason. You need to listen to it.
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