I have just got a new boyfriend and he told me something a couple of days ago, he said he wants to dress in female pvc in the bedroom. He doesnt want to wear wigs or do make up just wear a dress and certainly doesnt want to go outside in public. At first i thought he was joking but he is being serious. Im trying to get my head round it. He said he wants to try it a couple of times and if i cant deal with it then it wont be an issue. Im then thinking if he cant do that with me will he go find someone who will. Ive told him all this and he says hell stop if i cant cope with it. Im struggling to get my head round going to bed with a man in a dress. I know theres drag acts and men dress up as a woman on stag dos and things like that im not against people dressing how they want i have no problem with it , its just an issue with the guy im in a relationship with, has anyone ever had this in their life and how did they deal with it ? thanks
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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious + ♥, writes (2 October 2018):
I suspect he has already tried it with others and found this is what turns him on. It’s a fetish, a fairly harmless one in the grander scheme of things, but it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. I would suggest (you can obviously choose to take or leave this suggestion) you try it once. You never know. Seeing him all turned on and “buzzing” may be a turn on for YOU. If you find the whole thing unbearable, then you need to be honest so that he can decide whether it is a deal breaker for him. As your relationship is new, it shouldn’t be too difficult to end things and move on if you decide this is definitely not for you.
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A female reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (2 October 2018):
Just be honest with him.If this is NOT your thing and you don’t even WANT to try it, it’s OK. JUST tell him.I don’t think he will go elsewhere to try this. I would probably ask WHY he wants to try it and go from there.You are not alone, this would not be a “turn on” for me either.
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