A male Health And Fitness school-dance-coming-up-when-is-the-right-time-to-go-in-for-a-kiss-with-my-date School dance coming up! When is the right time to go in for a kiss with my date? Relationship & Sex    age 13-15, anonymous writes:

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I’m a sophmore and school dance is coming. My prom date is a girl I really like and we’ve been dating for a few weeks, at least 3. However, she is really shy, and it doesn’t help that I’m pretty shy as well, at least with relationship stuff. Well I hadn’t been focusing on trying to kiss her, because I didn’t know if she was ready yet. Well anyway, a friend of her’s told me that she really would like me to kiss her at the school dance. When is the right time to go in for the kiss?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2018):

Yes, definitely kiss her!Kiss her sweetly, lingering and gentle in the middle of a song. You will know when. Watch for her cues. And go in for the kiss. It will happen naturally. Try not to be too nervous. Just let the moment guide you. Some girls will not make the first move. Especially so young. When you are my age in my 50’s, you definitely will be more aggressive with men but young girls will wait for the boy to take the lead.I think she will be very happy! Don’t do what my ex husband did! Took him 6 MONTHS of dating to kiss me!!! He was that shy. So, when the clock hit midnight on NYE I planted a big, fat kiss on his lips!!! I was not going to wait another 6 months!!! So, trust me, she will love it. Be sweet and respectful. And don’t wait!!! LOLJust have fun, what a memorable night it will be!!!

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious Health And Fitness school-dance-coming-up-when-is-the-right-time-to-go-in-for-a-kiss-with-my-date-1 School dance coming up! When is the right time to go in for a kiss with my date? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (27 December 2018):

Health And Fitness school-dance-coming-up-when-is-the-right-time-to-go-in-for-a-kiss-with-my-date School dance coming up! When is the right time to go in for a kiss with my date? Relationship & Sex    Some good advice there already.All I would add is don’t make your first kiss a full on snog. A gentle but sensual and lingering peck on the lips will make it far less scary for both of you. If that goes well, make the next kiss a little longer and build from there. Good luck.

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A male reader, WiseOwlE Health And Fitness school-dance-coming-up-when-is-the-right-time-to-go-in-for-a-kiss-with-my-date-2 School dance coming up! When is the right time to go in for a kiss with my date? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (27 December 2018):

I think you will know when the moment is right. Some things we have to figure-out on our own, and go by what is in our own hearts. Nobody here has ever met you or that young lady. We can only go by our own experiences. I can say it should not be where everyone is watching you. Being that you are both so very young (few parents allow their children to date under 15), I say take it slow.Don’t go by what you hear through her friends. The danger in that is that they could be pressuring her, or pressuring you, to do things she isn’t ready for. You’re not doing this under pressure; you’re doing what your heart is telling you to do. You are considering both your ages, and what kisses mean. The right time will present itself. Surely!If you lean-in for a kiss; but she seems to pull-away, back-off! Don’t be angry, or feel embarrassed. It means she isn’t ready. If she says no, it’s NO! If she stands still and closes her eyes, that means it is okay.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice Health And Fitness school-dance-coming-up-when-is-the-right-time-to-go-in-for-a-kiss-with-my-date-2 School dance coming up! When is the right time to go in for a kiss with my date? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (27 December 2018):

Health And Fitness school-dance-coming-up-when-is-the-right-time-to-go-in-for-a-kiss-with-my-date-1 School dance coming up! When is the right time to go in for a kiss with my date? Relationship & Sex    I’m really stretching my memory here, but something like this happened to me when I was about 17. Based on those very old memories, I’ll offer up my best advice. One, relationships are not a spectator sport. So don’t go for it at the dance. (or in public)Two, affirmative consent means that you are both aware that this is going to happen and you both agree to it. So you shouldn’t do it until you have talked about it.Three, the timetable of the relationship is set by the participants. So, don’t do it because everyone expects it to happen. Don’t do it because it is the prom. Do it because you are both ready to do that.Four, kissing is a kind of emotional communication. Usually it says, “I love you”. Don’t lie with a kiss.I hope you don’t see this as a homework list. Mostly it’s just some reminders to keep you being the great guy you are.

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A male reader, Code Warrior Health And Fitness school-dance-coming-up-when-is-the-right-time-to-go-in-for-a-kiss-with-my-date-2 School dance coming up! When is the right time to go in for a kiss with my date? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (27 December 2018):

Health And Fitness 64af5b46-d671-4ef9-9508-1ea53e6e59c9 School dance coming up! When is the right time to go in for a kiss with my date? Relationship & Sex    If she wants you to kiss her, then there will be a moment where it should be pretty obvious. Recognizing that moment is something I don’t know how to explain. I can tell you that you can’t plan for it, you can’t force it, and you can’t doubt it. In other words, there’s always risk involved and hopefully, you will feel like you want to kiss her at the same time she wants you to kiss her. If you just relax, have a good time, and not worry about it, the moment will almost certainly present itself. Hopefully, you’re paying enough attention to recognize it and act on it.The best way make that happen, is to pay attention to her way more than your other friends. That doesn’t mean that you don’t talk to your other friends, it just means that you make it clear to everyone through your actions that you’re there to be with her. Make her feel beautiful by the way you act toward her. You hold her hand, slow dance with her and make eye contact. Don’t stare, but at the same time, don’t look away. Just let your eye contact linger slightly longer than normal and let yourself see her beauty, and let her see your desire – not in a creepy way, but in a “I think you’re beautiful” way. Talk to the other people in your group of friends, but when she’s talking, you’re all ears.Look, there’s a bit of trial and error in all this, so don’t worry about making mistakes. Believe me, if she wants you to kiss her, then she will probably be more nervous about making a mistake than you are. Don’t worry if the first kiss isn’t perfect or feels awkward, there will more than likely be another chance. Don’t get down on yourself and don’t let her get down on herself. Just relax and let nature take its course.

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A female reader, matcha Health And Fitness school-dance-coming-up-when-is-the-right-time-to-go-in-for-a-kiss-with-my-date-1 School dance coming up! When is the right time to go in for a kiss with my date? Relationship & Sex     +, writes (27 December 2018):

Health And Fitness df427b54-f5c9-40d1-97cb-cd1ee6f1a441 School dance coming up! When is the right time to go in for a kiss with my date? Relationship & Sex    If you are both shy, I’d actually suggest a kiss before or after the dance when you two are alone – you may both be more self-conscious if others are around.You may both be feeling more nervous if you’re both expecting a kiss to happen at a specific time.

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