A male Health And Fitness she-broke-up-with-me-because-i-lied-about-my-drinking-i-want-to-get-her-back She broke up with me because I lied about my drinking. I want to get her back! Relationship & Sex    age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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I got a tough deal..

So my girlfriend just broke up with me, beacause ive continuously lied to her about my drinking. Which is a problem. I don’t blame her for breaking up with me at all, but of coarse i didnt want that.okay the thing is we live together and work together. So i’m trying to get her back. She’s lost total trust me.but i still think there’s a sliver of a chance ,,how do i go about this now??i want to “win” her back. i want her to trust me againdo i act as if everything is ok? even tho i’m burnt inside,do i ask her to give me another chance? more to follow…goin to work now any serious responses are greatly appreciated. thanks everyone

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A female reader, followtheblackrabbit Health And Fitness she-broke-up-with-me-because-i-lied-about-my-drinking-i-want-to-get-her-back-1 She broke up with me because I lied about my drinking. I want to get her back! Relationship & Sex     +, writes (18 November 2018):

Health And Fitness she-broke-up-with-me-because-i-lied-about-my-drinking-i-want-to-get-her-back She broke up with me because I lied about my drinking. I want to get her back! Relationship & Sex    Totally agree with N91 and CodeWarrior. There’s really nothing more for you to do than get the help you need and learn from this. Addiction (on its way to destroying you) will destroy your career, your goals and any healthy relationships you try and invest in. Drinking was a dealbreaker for her and you lied about it to keep her with you. Was that fair to her? She trusted you to keep your promise that you’d keep your drinking under control and you broke that trust. Step in her shoes. Imagine someone you care about continuously lying to you and abusing themselves-could you trust them? When trust fails, love fails too. It seems like she did try to give it a shot but at the end of the day, you chose alcohol over love and respect. Please. Get help for this and when you’re truly on the road to healing, then you can start thinking of being a part of a healthy relationship. But as of now, let your Ex live her life and go about fixing yours.

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A male reader, Code Warrior Health And Fitness she-broke-up-with-me-because-i-lied-about-my-drinking-i-want-to-get-her-back She broke up with me because I lied about my drinking. I want to get her back! Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 November 2018):

Health And Fitness she-broke-up-with-me-because-i-lied-about-my-drinking-i-want-to-get-her-back-1 She broke up with me because I lied about my drinking. I want to get her back! Relationship & Sex    N91 nailed it! Grow the hell up! You fucked up and you’re getting what you deserve. Move on. I quit drinking cold turkey for 25 years after I woke up, passed out on a pedestrian foot bridge staring up at a street light at 3am after a night of excessive drinking and smoking weed.I didn’t drink and smoke weed again for 25 years until I was mature enough to handle alcohol while remaining under complete control. You don’t deserve her. Get your shit together and let someone else be the beneficiary of the new you. You already burned your bridge with her and you deserve her resentment.

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A male reader, N91 Health And Fitness she-broke-up-with-me-because-i-lied-about-my-drinking-i-want-to-get-her-back-2 She broke up with me because I lied about my drinking. I want to get her back! Relationship & Sex     + , writes (18 November 2018):

Health And Fitness 977e3106-6f9b-4a08-abba-678cab1a22f1 She broke up with me because I lied about my drinking. I want to get her back! Relationship & Sex    Not only did you lie but you’re an alcoholic.She made the right decision to leave you. People get to a point where they realise that another person doesn’t add anything to their life anymore and they decide to cut them off. She got to that point and realised that you’re negatively impacting her life in such a way that she needed to remove you from it.If you’re serious about this then you need to get help for your addiction and for whatever reason the drinking started. No self respecting person would be happy to stay with an alcoholic and until you get the required assistance there’s no chance of getting her back. You need to be able to show her that you’re getting help and working towards getting over your problems and then there MAY be a slight chance she could take you back although there’s a bigger chance she won’t be interested even after you have changed as the lying and drinking were dealbreakersYou should want to quit drinking for yourself, your health is the most important thing. If she doesn’t want you back then take this as a lesson not to lie and not to turn to drinking as an answer to your problems. If you’re feeling stressed or down then talk to people. Friends or qualified therapists will be more than happy to help you through your issues as I’m sure they would be mortified to hear how you’re currently dealing with it.Seek the help you need and only then should you contact your ex and see if she is interested in reconciling although I wouldn’t build your hopes up. What you did is very serious.

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