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This is not so much a dating question or anything, but I have used this website before for advice and found it helpful.A girl I have been on and off chatting to asked me if she could borrow £1000 to repair her damaged car. I agreed under the basis she was going through some difficult circumstances at the time.She said she would pay me back when she got paid. She got paid 3 weeks ago now and is adamant she sent me the money back. I have definitely not received it and have sent her screenshots to prove as such. She has also sent a screenshot showing that she sent it, but I’m sceptical because I don’t understand how she could have paid me without me giving her my bank details (she said she just sent it straight back to the account I sent it to her from…but normally in UK bank accounts, only the name shows up from a person who has sent you money and you need further details if you were to transfer money to them). The girl has since blocked me on numerous forms of communication, so Its difficult to contact her.What would people advise I do next?Thanks

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious Health And Fitness she-owes-me-money-but-is-adamant-she-transferred-the-money She owes me money but is adamant she transferred the money! Relationship & Sex     + , writes (17 September 2018):

Health And Fitness she-owes-me-money-but-is-adamant-she-transferred-the-money She owes me money but is adamant she transferred the money! Relationship & Sex    If you can’t contact her, then you have a problem. If you CAN get hold of her, insist on going to her bank with her to find out what happened to the payment. Obviously, if she is lying (which sounds highly likely), she will refuse to go. If she is genuine, she will want to sort it out. As she has blocked you, it sounds like you have been had. Lesson for the future: never lend money you cannot afford to lose, and certainly not to someone you have only chatted with.

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A male reader, N91 Health And Fitness she-owes-me-money-but-is-adamant-she-transferred-the-money She owes me money but is adamant she transferred the money! Relationship & Sex     + , writes (17 September 2018):

Health And Fitness she-owes-me-money-but-is-adamant-she-transferred-the-money-1 She owes me money but is adamant she transferred the money! Relationship & Sex    Did you get some kind of repayment schedule in writing? If not I think it will be hard to reclaim the money. If you didn’t give her your bank details then it’s absolutely impossible for her to have sent you the money back. There’s no way it would show another persons bank account number and sort code on a transaction record.It’s pretty obvious that she’s lying but without any written agreement I can’t see you getting the money back. I could be wrong though, maybe try and consult legal advice.

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Health And Fitness she-owes-me-money-but-is-adamant-she-transferred-the-money-1 She owes me money but is adamant she transferred the money! Relationship & Sex     + , writes (17 September 2018):

Health And Fitness she-owes-me-money-but-is-adamant-she-transferred-the-money-2 She owes me money but is adamant she transferred the money! Relationship & Sex    She’s obviously lying and you’ve been fleeced. Do you know where she stays? You need to somehow contact her and ensure that you prove to her that you haven’t received the money. And as aunt honeypie says, contact a lawyer. The amount is too big to let go of and you shouldn’t. Take it as the lesson of a lifetime. Don’t ever lend money to anyone, least of all to someone you barely know.

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness us She owes me money but is adamant she transferred the money! Relationship & Sex     + , writes (17 September 2018):

Health And Fitness 98df9f73-904a-4dd9-a948-14179b833b87 She owes me money but is adamant she transferred the money! Relationship & Sex    Contact Citizen’s advice. You might even be able to find a lawyer who can help you sort this out.She is obviously lying.

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