A male Health And Fitness should-i-include-her-son-for-the-first-date-or-should-it-just-be-between-the-two-of-us Should I include her son for the first date or should it just be between the two of us? Relationship & Sex    age 22-25, anonymous writes:

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So a while back I met a woman through my sister-in-law. We’ve been talking on the phone a lot, and met up for lunch a couple times since we work near each other. It’s obvious there’s a chemistry between us. I’d like to ask her out. She has a seven-year-old son. I don’t know if I should plan something her son can join in on (as I want to make it clear that I want both she and her son to be a part of my life), or if since this is the first date I should just keep it between us.

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A male reader, Code Warrior Health And Fitness should-i-include-her-son-for-the-first-date-or-should-it-just-be-between-the-two-of-us-1 Should I include her son for the first date or should it just be between the two of us? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (12 December 2018):

Health And Fitness should-i-include-her-son-for-the-first-date-or-should-it-just-be-between-the-two-of-us Should I include her son for the first date or should it just be between the two of us? Relationship & Sex    Stay out of her son’s life. He’s none of your business. He’s too young to understand adult relationships and he can be easily hurt. Besides, it’s alarming that you haven’t even asked her out yet and you’re already mentally positioning yourself for a role in both of their lives.Don’t even think for a millisecond that you’re some kind of white night saving a damsell in distress. You’re just some guy that’s thinking about asking out his mom and that’s all the status you should allow yourself until such time as a relationship beyond mere dating is formed. Even then, you should avoid letting her son get too attached to you. Her son must be protected, because if you ever get together and then break up and he’s really attached to you, it will be devastating for him.

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A female reader, Andie’s Thoughts Health And Fitness should-i-include-her-son-for-the-first-date-or-should-it-just-be-between-the-two-of-us Should I include her son for the first date or should it just be between the two of us? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (12 December 2018):

Health And Fitness should-i-include-her-son-for-the-first-date-or-should-it-just-be-between-the-two-of-us-1 Should I include her son for the first date or should it just be between the two of us? Relationship & Sex    You still barely know each other. Children need stability. Until 6+ months of exclusivity, they shouldn’t really have met you, unless as a group you were both at BY CHANCE. First several dates should be the two of you only.

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious Health And Fitness should-i-include-her-son-for-the-first-date-or-should-it-just-be-between-the-two-of-us Should I include her son for the first date or should it just be between the two of us? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (12 December 2018):

Health And Fitness cb00d1ef-0a14-495d-ae29-55bd6b6b2f04 Should I include her son for the first date or should it just be between the two of us? Relationship & Sex    No, absolutely do NOT involve the child at this stage. This is a date, not a family outing. Plenty of time for the latter IF the relationship works out. By all means, ask questions about her son while you are on your date(s) but do NOT involve him in your relationship yet.

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness should-i-include-her-son-for-the-first-date-or-should-it-just-be-between-the-two-of-us-1 Should I include her son for the first date or should it just be between the two of us? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (12 December 2018):

Health And Fitness 98df9f73-904a-4dd9-a948-14179b833b87 Should I include her son for the first date or should it just be between the two of us? Relationship & Sex    No, don’t involve the kid yet.You have NO idea if you two are as well suited as you hope/want. And really the LAST thing the kid needs to to see guys come through a “revolving door” of suitors.You getting to know him should WAIT until you two have decided that you are a. Exclusive b see a future and 3. are more certain that you WANT to make this a long term relationship. Wait a good 9-12 months. You are rushing this. Don’t.

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