A female Health And Fitness we-had-a-fight-my-childrens-present-are-at-my-boyfriends-house-and-he-wont-let-me-get-them We had a fight my children's present are at my boyfriend's house and he won't let me get them Relationship & Sex    age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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My boyfriend ruins every Christmas and I don’t know what to do.

We went last minute shopping today which was his idea. In a supermarket he said he needed the toilet so I decided to cash in a scratch card while I was waiting. The till is right by the side of the toilets.He didn’t see me when he came out and I didn’t notice him. I saw a text and he had gone back to the car showing off because he had been walking up and down some aisles.Well we’ve had a massive argument. All my children’s presents are at his house and he won’t let me get them. He’s called me a selfish bitch and spiteful because i’d gone in the queue to cash the scratch card.I have no idea what I’m going to do tomorrow, all my family’s presents are at his house too. Do I just grovel and apologise, was I selfish for not standing by the toilet? I’m so upset and stressed, what should I do. Christmas is going to be ruined without their things but I’m so upset to try and grovel. What would you do?

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious Health And Fitness we-had-a-fight-my-childrens-present-are-at-my-boyfriends-house-and-he-wont-let-me-get-them We had a fight my children's present are at my boyfriend's house and he won't let me get them Relationship & Sex     + , writes (24 December 2018):

Health And Fitness we-had-a-fight-my-childrens-present-are-at-my-boyfriends-house-and-he-wont-let-me-get-them We had a fight my children's present are at my boyfriend's house and he won't let me get them Relationship & Sex    In your shoes I would bang and hammer on his door until he was sick of the sound of me and let me remove the presents (unless you are physically scared of him, of course). Perhaps you could take along a relative or friend for support too?If this is how your relationship runs, then the next thing you need to do is think seriously about whether there is any future in it, or whether you should move on and find yourself someone who adds value to our life rather than draining the energy out of it.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Health And Fitness we-had-a-fight-my-childrens-present-are-at-my-boyfriends-house-and-he-wont-let-me-get-them-1 We had a fight my children's present are at my boyfriend's house and he won't let me get them Relationship & Sex     + , writes (24 December 2018):

Health And Fitness 49f157e9-364f-4a56-bc91-249c21db156e We had a fight my children's present are at my boyfriend's house and he won't let me get them Relationship & Sex    No. you call the police, or a big burly male relative or your mum and you go round there and you ask politely and calmly for your children’s presents. if he refuses then you go home and tell your kids where their presents are and then you don’t have anything to do with him, ever again.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2018):

Call the police, see if they can tell him to return them or grovel, get the gifts and dump his sorry ass, he ruins it and clearly doesn’t make you happy

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