My boyfriend was getting ready to go to work today and we were talking to each other. We both moved in closer at the same time and the brim of his hat hit my nose really hard pushing it backwards and my nose made a cracking noise. I fell back in pain and said, ” owww my nose”! It sounds ridiculous, but somehow this really hurt and I was a bit stunned!
My boyfriend just looked at me with a blank expression. I continued to say “ouch” while holding my nose and he just stared at me for about 5 minutes. Then without saying a single word he put on his coat and jacket. I said, “wait! can you check if I’m ok? My nose really hurts. He didn’t look at me once and kept his back to me. I then started crying because I didn’t understand why he was ignoring me. Without looking back once he left the house. I was really angry and yelled, “don’t come back”! I felt angry because he just flat out ignored me when I got hurt. It was clearly an accident and I didn’t blame him for it and I wasn’t angry. I don’t understand why he didn’t ask if I was ok when I clearly was in pain. It really freaked me out that he ignored me and left. I would have said sorry and checked to see if he was ok, gave him a kiss, said it was an accident, etc. It should have been something we laughed about afterwards…. Why do you think he reacted like this? Should I be worried?
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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious + ♥, writes (30 October 2018):
Honestly? He sounds like he is fed up of you causing needless drama. I mean, come one; the brim of his hat hit your nose. What was it made of to cause you so much pain you rolled around clutching your nose for 5 minutes? Steel? Was your nose really still hurting enough 5 minutes after the incident to warrant you clutching it and saying “ouch”?Then, as if that wasn’t enough drama for you, you had to tell him not to come back because of this silly incident? If he has any sense, he will take you at your word. You are acting like an attention-seeking child. Perhaps you need to grow up?
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