Hi everyone! So I recently just got out of a yearlong distance relationship with another woman. I was half her age and was the older one in the relationship and she was also the “man” as well. She lives in another country and even has a fiancé of many many years w 4 kids too. When the 3sum didn’t end up working out she wanted to continue talking sexually with me and since her man was fine with it I had no problems with it either. I would call her daddy and she would call me her baby girl etc and we really did have a special connection when we were first involved for say the first four to five months were heated! Like we we’re very interested in each other a lot but now here’s where my question will come in. It’s not a question about why did she cheat but why did she cheat the way she did k? So like I said it was almost a year now and I found out she was cheating on me with a guy and not only was he a guy he also looked exactly like me and lived in my town! So I was told that I was her first serious gf and that guys were ok so if we had a rule that guys were ok then why did she hide it? Also I am thinking she might be bi curious and just told me she was gay because she’s exploring her true self? Also to cheat on me w a man that looks just like me but is a man and also lives in my same town too like what!? Lol. I can see why she cheated cuz we did fight a lot towards the end and the age difference too etc but why she do it like this? Any opinions or answers would definitely be helpful and I would greatly appreciate it too!! Ty. I hope that I get some kind of answers or something to make me understand her reasoning for why she had to do it in this way etc. ?????
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A female reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (4 January 2019):
She was done using you. when there is more arguments and drama than sex what’s the point (for her) to keep you around?She picked a guy from YOUR town to as a way to make it perfectly clear how easy it was to replace you.Why waste so much time and energy on a woman like this? It wasn’t ever a healthy relationship. You were a prop for her 3 some and then her “lover” for a while until she got tired of you. Is that really how you see yourself? As someone to be used?Want more from a relationship/partner. Why ALL this drama? Why NOT date a SINGLE woman, be exclusive and make it work?
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A female reader, NORA B + ♥, writes (4 January 2019):
Right from the start..she was a player and continues to be one.As you would be aware if she is willing to cheat with You…..she will also cheat on You.This woman is into playing games…..and has no intention of doing otherwise.Your understanding from the start was SHE WAS A PLAYER…your understanding now is Note she is A PLAYER.Would you consider to establish a relationship with a kind,loyal loving woman.? The choice is yours Best wishes NORA B.
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