A female Health And Fitness why-did-this-guy-get-mad-when-i-sat-on-his-friends-lap-instead-of-him Why did this guy get mad when I sat on his friends lap instead of him? Relationship & Sex    age 22-25, *abydoll264 writes:

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Months ago this guy told me in front of his other friend that he had a crush on me for the longest but I thought he was joking and shrugged it to the side.

Fast forward- I had sex with him 4 times so far but during those 4 times it was spread out through the months but I noticed he would still hang out with me without sex. I noticed odd behavior like him showing up where I am unexpectedly, this happened a couple times. He also intiated a hug and I would give him hugs to. He is a little mean to me sometimes (not all the time) and I don’t know why but I don’t let it bother me. Also when we hang out with other people he gets quiet when i’m around. Anyway, I walked up and him and his other friend were sitting on a chair and I walked up to him and he put his arm around my waist pulling me to sit on his lap and when I pulled away to sit on his friends lap he got mad and when I got up to sit on his lap he didn’t want me to signst on his lap anymore so I went back to sit on his friends lap. I’m cool with his friends and I don’t see them like that and we all hang out together. Does he like me? And what should I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2018):

Obviously you like this guy but you don’t love him and you don’t take him seriously. Maybe those four times you felt pity for him or wanted to be nice to him. I hope he will realise that there is no hope of getting you fall in love with him and move on. Because truly there is no hope for him.

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness why-did-this-guy-get-mad-when-i-sat-on-his-friends-lap-instead-of-him Why did this guy get mad when I sat on his friends lap instead of him? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (7 November 2018):

Health And Fitness 98df9f73-904a-4dd9-a948-14179b833b87 Why did this guy get mad when I sat on his friends lap instead of him? Relationship & Sex    Why would you, first of all…. have SEX and fool around with a guy who is ” a little MEAN” to you sometimes?! WTF!No, just no. One thing if he teases you and it comes across as a little mean because YOU REALLY don’t know his sense of humor that well, but another is him just being a kind of an asshat who thinks being “a little mean” to a girl he had a crush on and has slept with is OK – which should tell you he is a guy to NOT get further involved with. Seriously!And you knew he would get upset if you sat on his friend’s lap, come one… you sleep with the guy who has SAID OUT LOUD that he has/had a crush on you and you TRY and make him jealous by sitting on his friend’s lap. Seriously, OP… that’s teenage drama!While you CAN sit wherever you darned please, but you are going to have to realize that playing games with other people can backlash. And this did.My advice? STOP sleeping with him. Stop hugging etc. He is possessive of you (which he really has little reason to have, other than he’s had sex with you) and he is “a little mean” to you as well. He isn’t a good fit for you at all.And STOP playing his friend out against him. Grow up.You ask, does he like me?I think he maybe likes you enough to sleep with you, and he FEELS entitled to treat you as he sees fit, he acts jealous (which IS NOT a good thing) it’s more like he feels OWNERSHIP over you.Overall, you think you need to nip this in the bud. I don’t think he is a good guy or a good fit for you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2018):

He wants you all to himself! Even if he said he had a crush on you in a joking manner, he was probably half serious. So sitting in another guy’s lap, ESPECIALLY a friend’s lap is WRONG. ANY sort of flirting is wrongEven if you’re “only” having sex, you belong to HIM. He’s showing up unexpectedly to check up on you, make sure you aren’t soaking up the attention of other guys behind his back. He obviously can’t trust you and you’re rapidly developing a reputation as a slut whether you want one or not.It’s time to choose: do you want to be with him or do you want to be single? You can’t have both.

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