A female Health And Fitness why-does-my-husband-look-up-the-category-of-ex-girlfriend-in-porn Why does my husband look up the category of ex girlfriend in porn? Relationship & Sex    age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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My husband occasionally uses my laptop. And sometimes watches porn on it, which is fine as long as our sex life is ok. I always delete the porn off my browser history as i sometimes need to bring my laptop into work. Anyway, apart from looking up ladies that are the exact opposite of me (i get that), he often searches “ex girlfriend” as the porn theme. Why? Surely if he was looking for porn that reminded him of his ex (which i would be uncomfortable about), he would look up specific traits (ie: bbw redhead etc)

I do know that he likes amateur porn in any category he watches. So can someone explain what purpose “ex girlfriend” serves??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2018):

I can think of no other reason than to make you jealous. If I were you I wouldn’t say anything but use either your laptop or his computer to look up porn with ex-boyfriend as a subject.

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A male reader, Code Warrior Health And Fitness why-does-my-husband-look-up-the-category-of-ex-girlfriend-in-porn-1 Why does my husband look up the category of ex girlfriend in porn? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (7 November 2018):

Health And Fitness why-does-my-husband-look-up-the-category-of-ex-girlfriend-in-porn Why does my husband look up the category of ex girlfriend in porn? Relationship & Sex    Does the laptop belong to you, or your company? If it belongs to your company, then you risk termination by allowing him to use it to look at porn. As for why he chooses to look at ex girlfriend porn, who knows?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2018):

Women’s feelings often don’t get taken seriously on this topic it seems and it’s all about men’s fantasies being of supreme importance . I would be worried to . Men need to think about the messages they send to the woman they are with in the porn they choose . It feels crappy when your partner deliberately goes out of his way to consistently choose any woman who looks completelymlike you are not .If q mans fantasies are so far from the real life woman he is with perhaps hemis with the wrong woman . I do agree however that talking to him is the first step . Let him know how you feel and perhaps ask him if he is looking for someone different to satisfy him sexually and if you should be finding a man who is interested in women like you

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2018):

Well believe it or not men prefer looking at girl next door types rather than the artificial glamorus types. They are more realistic. The ex gf pages supposed to be of ex wives and gfs put on the internet by jilted husbands and lovers.

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness why-does-my-husband-look-up-the-category-of-ex-girlfriend-in-porn-1 Why does my husband look up the category of ex girlfriend in porn? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (7 November 2018):

Health And Fitness 98df9f73-904a-4dd9-a948-14179b833b87 Why does my husband look up the category of ex girlfriend in porn? Relationship & Sex    No idea, why not simply ask him?Or accept that he somehow think that it’s “hot or taboo” and has no real importance in YOUR relationship.Him looking up ” bbw redhead ” doesn’t mean he wants to be with his “bigger redheaded ex-GF”. I might mean that he has seem porn with bigger redheads in them and enjoyed them so they become a “go-to” for him when it comes to porn.Since it’s something that bothers you, ask him without accusing him of anything.

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