We been together 8 months. He lies to me alot and doesnt priortize me. She moved back in town 5 months ago. And he was stalking her from his car 5 days ago. I know this because my friend informed me when she was driving in the area he was at. They been broken up two years and the last time they saw and spoke to each other was in January and that was after we got together. I didnt know about her moving back as he told me she didnt live here but I contacted her and turns out he was aware of her moving back due to having family problems. She left him when they broke up because their relationship came to a standstill after a fight they had. but he didnt want her to leave. He talks trash about her which is making me hate her. He lies to me alot. Is he still in love with her? What is happening?!
NOTE: My friend showed me proof and its true! His ex was sitting at the store drinking a beer and he parked in PLAIN VIEW as if to get her attention. He sat there for 15 minutes like he wanted her to approach his car but she ignored him and he drove off… Does he love me? But I met his mom… And his sister tho..?
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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious + ♥, writes (13 October 2018):
So, to recap: – He lies to you.- He doesn’t prioritize you.- He bad mouths his ex.- He stalks his ex.He sounds quite a catch. I can see why you want to stay with him. You KNOW you are worth better.
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A female reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (13 October 2018):
Why are you with him?And PLEASE don’t say… I love him!He lies a lot to you – which means you don’t trust him, which in turn makes you doubt him AND yourself. Not good.He doesn’t prioritize you. Why be with a guy who doesn’t see you as a vital part of his life? WHY “let” a guy determine your “worth” as a partner? A guy who doesn’t REALLY seem to give two F’s about you.A guy who talks smack about his ex but still try and get her attention… It makes no sense. Except he might just be telling you LIES. You say it makes you “hate” her… whatever for? You aren’t dating her. You don’t even KNOW her. It seems like a diversion tactics. He talks a lot of smack about her to make you think she is SO horrible he couldn’t POSSIBLY still carry a torch or grudge. Yet his ACTIONS say otherwise.YOU can’t go by a liars words. Look at his actions. Are those the actions of a guy who is SO over his ex? Who is into you? Sorry, no it’s not.You have met his mom and sister, SO WHAT?!Again, it’s a NEAT tactic some guys use to make a girl FEEL like he actually cares, but again LOOK AT HIS ACTIONS!Why would you contact the ex? She is no one to you. And if you think talking to her or telling her to “stay away” is going to make ANY difference you are sorely mistaken.Honey, I’m going to be blunt. You are dating a douche. And you know he is a douche and you KEEP sticking with him. Is that because you don’t see your own worth? You don’t think you DESERVE a partner whom you can trust, respect, adore and be important to (and vice verse for your partner).You are 22-25? And you are settling for this guy? Why?NOTHING you have written about him tells me that he is a good guy who you have a future with. It sounds more like some high school drama.Have some standards OP.
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