A female Health And Fitness why-would-a-guy-hold-back-from-sex Why would a guy hold back from sex? Relationship & Sex    age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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Why would a guy hold back from sex ? ive started dating a guy for the last 4 week (we only see each other no-one else ) we have done everything apart from sleep together. He did say he wanted to wait until date 5 before sleeping with me. He certainly doesnt have any problems in the bedroom so why do men stop themselves , is it a fear of getting emotionally involved too quick and falling for someone or is it something else ?

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A male reader, Code Warrior Health And Fitness why-would-a-guy-hold-back-from-sex-1 Why would a guy hold back from sex? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (2 January 2019):

Health And Fitness why-would-a-guy-hold-back-from-sex Why would a guy hold back from sex? Relationship & Sex    Why are you so eager to have sex? If I were back in the dating pool I wouldn’t have sex with a woman until I was convinced that she’s not promiscuous. I’ve no idea how long that would take, it would take as long as it takes. I’m not promiscuous, so why would I want to have sex or even involve myself with a promiscuous woman? Frankly, I can’t think of anyone I find to be more weak minded and pathetic than someone who’s controlled by their libido. You will never hear me say the words: “I haven’t been laid in X amount of time”. It’s not that I don’t like sex, it just doesn’t control me. Consequently a woman’s vagina also holds no sway over me. I can take it or leave it. In fact, if a woman made an issue of it with me, I’d probably tell her to hit the road.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Health And Fitness why-would-a-guy-hold-back-from-sex-2 Why would a guy hold back from sex? Relationship & Sex     +, writes (2 January 2019):

Health And Fitness why-would-a-guy-hold-back-from-sex-1 Why would a guy hold back from sex? Relationship & Sex    Hi Op,You do realize if the guy had come on to you too soon, you would be making a different statement right??There are some guys out there who actually look at other guys behaviour, hear the complaints of women, and do not want to be like all the others. So they try to wait to show the woman that they are not after them just for sex.I am one of those guys. Over the years I have been called gay, slow, boring, and other names, simply because I did rush penis first into a relationship. Also dumped because I chose respect rather than have an animalistic behaviour towards sex. I never wanted to be classified as “All men are the same”, and did my best not to be. He could be one of those guys.A guy like him may also be waiting for you to make the first move. To give him a clear go ahead, so that he knows he is not being presumptuous with his actions.If he wants to wait for date 5…Then make date 5 happen sooner than later.Some guys just don’t want you to have any regrets after.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2019):

Have you stopped and thought that he respects you and doesn’t want you to get the impression that he is only after a quick sex?

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness why-would-a-guy-hold-back-from-sex-1 Why would a guy hold back from sex? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (2 January 2019):

Health And Fitness 98df9f73-904a-4dd9-a948-14179b833b87 Why would a guy hold back from sex? Relationship & Sex    I don’t think he is worried about getting too emotionally involved.Might be he just kind of want to make sure that YOU are someone HE can see himself with long term. Or he was waiting on results from a STD test… or he just likes to drive you a little nuts WANTING him physically, or he was out of condoms and it sounded like a reasonable excuse. Etc. Etc.There is nothing wrong in waiting a while before jumping into bed.I can only guess… And there are PLENTY of options to choose between.

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A female reader, Honeypie Health And Fitness why-would-a-guy-hold-back-from-sex-1 Why would a guy hold back from sex? Relationship & Sex     + , writes (2 January 2019):

Health And Fitness 98df9f73-904a-4dd9-a948-14179b833b87 Why would a guy hold back from sex? Relationship & Sex    I don’t think he is worried about getting too emotionally involved.Might be he just kind of want to make sure that YOU are someone HE can see himself with long term. Or he was waiting on results from a STD test… or he just likes to drive you a little nuts WANTING him physically, or he was out of condoms and it sounded like a reasonable excuse. Etc. Etc.There is nothing wrong in waiting a while before jumping into bed.I can only guess… And there are PLENTY of options to choose between.

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