Hi, me and my partner have been together 10 years his previous partner he was with for 15 years. I was looking at his messages and found a message where he stated to her that there is nothing here for him and I have questioned him on this but so far I’ve got two different answers. Now to me it would mean what it says! That basically our relationship is non existent,nothing to him. Sick of having it blamed on me because he thinks it’s my fault because I made him feel this way.which I haven’t I was unaware of him feeling this as it wasn’t mentioned by him to me. He texted this to his ex partner who he isn’t close to. Only reason for this that I can gather is he’s put it out there in hope that she would want to have him back.to test the water so to speak. Just wanting another opinion on why he would text that to her. Thanks.
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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious + ♥, writes (18 May 2019):
I have a few questions of my own. What were you doing checking his phone messages?What is your relationship like? Have you got into a rut? I can’t think of any reason why someone would say something like that about their relationship unless they meant it. If you want to work this out, you two need to talk. Stop the accusations, stop the checking up on his messages and TALK.
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